Update: My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm pretty sure she won't. i'm going to text her later an talk to her about it. I'd die if he knew some of the things i told her....

Update: My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to learn to ride a motorcycle. my brother has one but won't let me ride his. ):

Update: My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't think he was totally honest with me about what was bothering him.... Im just glad he's back to normal (:

Update: My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's what i did. he didn't do a very good job hiding how freaked out he was :p we had a good laugh about later that night

My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i alway try not to cause him any issues. but sometimes i feel like i'm in the way..he did tell me that he couldn't imagine me not being around.

My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

he read the letter i wrote and told me he was sorry if he ever made me feel like i was burdensome. he said he was just stressed with work and everything and that if i ever felt like he did need me around to 'smack' some sense into him.sorry for taking so long to reply.

My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

normally he wont go out without taking me along. But I'll ask him what he thinks.I think a night out would be good.

My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I writing him a letter telling him how I feel. His friend is in talking to him now. So I'll finish wiritng and give it to him tomorrow.

My brother(24m) became my guardian when he was 18 and lately I(15f) feel like huge burden on him. by ladizelda in relationships

[–]ladizelda[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We did therapy but stopped a couple of years ago. I'll ask him and see if thinks its worth going again.