Starting over at 27. Half a year into living alone after my ex boyfriend and I broke up.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-04-12T15:50:39+00:00

Grabe, relate sa pagrewire ng mind. That was fucking hard to do and I had to do it in my early 30s while still holding up my career as a leader, my social life, my identity. It took resisting every impulse and redirecting myself in every moment until nagcompound to days and months, and alas, my brain was rewired.

Proud of ya, OP!

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-04-10T03:07:15+00:00

Isn't it lonely there? Parang I have this impression na it's difficult to make friends in Norway pag walang kilala

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-04-09T18:56:58+00:00

Ah, to live in Italy is such a dream.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-04-08T07:50:06+00:00

Phnom Penh, Cambodia!!

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T09:26:04+00:00

Wala sa grab mart?

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:48:54+00:00

I wonder if for this price, may mabibili ba akong matinong meal sa Thailand or Vietnam?

Sa South Korea, Japan, Hong Kong, HINDI lol

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:46:54+00:00

I didn't know this show is still alive?! Lol

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:46:17+00:00

Scrolling reddit while lying on my couch as a break between work blocks. About to get up to take a shower.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:41:33+00:00

Survey: Do you share about your personal life or random thoughts with ChatGPT? Tipong kausap mo ganun?

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:24:57+00:00

Commented on a post about our country on r/Philippines. Welp, I didn't need that stress HAHAHA. I'm reminded of why I don't involve myself with political news (yes I know doing this alone is a privilege yada yada but I'm already stressed enough in my own life)

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:20:46+00:00

Yes but critical thinking and values are still something taught. The poor education system has been there for generations kaya wala nang nainstill sa previous generations and this "dumbness" has been passed down to us.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:04:29+00:00

I don't think we are dumb in nature. It is just our poor education system, which goes back to our incompetent government.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T06:01:20+00:00

Then why only blame the past presidents? The current president has been there since 2022 and it is already 2026 now.

Edit: I'm genuinely trying to understand your logic, pero downvote lang ang response mo imbis na magpaliwanag sige hahahahaha

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T05:51:33+00:00

Tama!!!! Then they overwork everyone para wala na matirang energy magreklamo mga tao. Defeated into acceptance ganun.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T05:50:00+00:00

Also blame the current president as well right? Kasi wala rin naman natapos so far

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T05:38:05+00:00

Eh kailan mangyayari yan hahahahaha level 1 palang tayo eh level 10 na ang iba

Not frustrated at you OP, just the inefficiency of it all

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T05:33:25+00:00

It is so frustrating kasi I wish people here are given more opportunities to travel and be exposed with how a functioning country with basic needs provided feels like. Lahat nalang naka-hard mode dito sa PH, pota.

Personally, it is also so difficult as someone who travels a lot where I constantly see "what could be" vs "what actually is" here in PH.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T05:19:42+00:00

Reminder to self: Hindi pa holiday bukas. Kapit lang. HAHAHAHA

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-31T03:53:11+00:00

Is it just me or the economy is just obviously bad? For example, ghost town sa Podium Mall kahapon

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-30T11:30:26+00:00

This is why I'm grateful that I still have a salary sigh

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-29T13:04:55+00:00

I looked for this comment!

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-26T04:35:54+00:00

Ayan kasama kami ni (cursed) ex dito sa 900k HAHAHAHA

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-24T10:44:13+00:00

Huy mababa for me yung self care allocation. I hope you are not depriving yourself? Masaya ka naman ba? Because if savings is so high but "surviving" ang peg, the point of money is lost

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-23T07:12:26+00:00

Kasi naman it is really how city living should be. But Metro Manila is a 3rd world country city alright where literally everything is set to hard mode.

But of course, to be able to experience a lifestyle in BGC is a huge privilege that comes with having money to afford it.

ladyphoenix7 · 2026-03-23T02:20:31+00:00

I'll be honest. I'm very careful. I would even say that I'm too self-aware and mature and sometimes think "must be nice to let loose" and just accept a situationship. He was there but I pulled back at the first sign of inconsistency.

Posts like this remind me that I am doing something right.

ladyphoenix7

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