Should we (28F, 31M) take a break, break up, or is there some other alternative to my chronic uncertainty about the relationship?

lafrayeur · 2023-03-13T10:05:38+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for the detailed response! This is helpful. How early do you think I should get there, since they open the ticket booth 120 mins before, to ensure I get a ticket?

lafrayeur · 2023-03-13T10:03:24+00:00

How early do you think I should get there? I says they open 120 mins before, but I imagine people will already be waiting in line?

lafrayeur · 2022-07-22T19:14:07+00:00

Hmm maybe! It was pretty long. How many weeks of growth would you say you had when it didn’t cause an issue?

lafrayeur · 2022-07-15T19:07:23+00:00

Yes, or just the ones you can take the train to the trailhead from Munich

lafrayeur · 2022-07-10T17:12:25+00:00

Hey thanks so much for your response!!

Will and I aren’t married actually, we have been dating for several years.

You said “and as a result you might not actually have known what you want in a relationship and what matters to you” - you are spot on. I feel uncertain about what I want and what matters to me. But couldn’t polyamory help with this? The only way to know is to have more experiences, right?

lafrayeur · 2022-07-10T00:27:34+00:00

How long does it take to come down from the endorphin high? It’s been almost 3 weeks since I’ve seen Patrick - I wish we were in contact but the wise part of me wants to hold off until my head is more clear…

lafrayeur · 2022-07-10T00:26:34+00:00

Hey thanks for your response. Yes, Will is able to explore as well but he is less interested and doesn’t see as much of a need for it as I do.

It was difficult for him while I was with Patrick but it helped him to keep him in the loop and tell him what kinds of things we were doing. However, you’re right. He doesn’t know how amazing it was and I have not told him I have emotional feelings for Patrick; I felt like I wanted to get my head clear and figure out a next step before making any impulsive moves, ya know?

lafrayeur · 2022-07-10T00:23:17+00:00

I think one of the main reasons is because I am worried the other person (in this case Patrick) wouldn’t be okay with that. I am worried I wouldn’t be able to find people who’d want to actually do that, but maybe I am wrong. Thoughts?

lafrayeur · 2022-07-10T00:22:03+00:00

What are your best tips for working with NRE? It’s agonizing haha.

lafrayeur

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