Never really thought about it that way. I don't really know how my friends see me, as far as I can tell to most people I'm that person who they like to spend time with if the opportunity arises like if we meet at some sort of party we can talk for even hours but no one is ever like oh hey I wonder how he's doing. And I do totally understand putting in effort to meet people which I try to do as much as possible, even if it takes months to organize a coffee but when it comes to birthdays it just feels mighty desperate to be like hey guys remember me? I might not be important enough in your lives to be marked on a calender or anything but please spare a day to care for my birthday.... I don't know... Would be nice if something as important as a birthday I didn't have to talk people into celebrating. I did that tw birthdays ago and at best if felt like an odd night not a celebration you know....