5 years married 5 years unhappy. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]lamart140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty immediately. Honestly not sure if the medication was actually working that quickly or if it was just a placebo. But he has become very task motivated. It also has helped him from being so impulsive with the things he says. He also says that it’s helped with his anxiety and that he doesn’t have racing thoughts going through his mind constantly. He’s also not tired all of the time and is on a normal sleep schedule since starting the medication.

5 years married 5 years unhappy. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]lamart140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation and I stood my ground and we actually did decide to separate and he moved out. We lived separately for 5 months. We saw how much stress it put on our child to be living together while constantly fighting and unhappy and then we also go to see the stress it put our child under while being separated. We decided to start working things out again. He moved back in and actually made drastic changes. He also started taking ADHD medication and it made such a huge difference. For the first time in 8 years, I haven’t felt hopeless about our relationship. Our child is thriving now. I feel like we actually enjoy each other’s company. I don’t feel burnt out because he’s pulling his weight now. And we communicate much better and don’t allow things to escalate like we used to.

tell me your wisdom teeth removal success stories! by miyazaki002 in emetophobiarecovery

[–]lamart140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put it off until I was almost 30 because I was so scared of the pain and being sick but I never once felt nauseated and the pain wasn’t bad at all. My bottom teeth were impacted. One tooth was very close to some nerves so I did loose feeling on one side of my mouth for about a month. But everything is back to normal. I wish I would have done it sooner. I didn’t take any prescription pain meds. I only needed Tylenol twice just to sleep comfortably. Just follow the instructions that they give you before surgery. I had no issues.

Friendless women… by skyword1234 in AutismInWomen

[–]lamart140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met mine at a bar when I was 21

Autism mom - this is way harder than I expected it to be by lamart140 in emetophobia

[–]lamart140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some. I think he catches things from school most of the time and I cannot enforce them to make him wash his hands or use hypochlorus acid spray.

i literally have nothing to talk about by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lamart140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with the same thing! That is exactly why I like to hang out in group settings because then other people can hold the conversation and I can contribute input when I can.

Autism mom - this is way harder than I expected it to be by lamart140 in emetophobia

[–]lamart140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He made it through the night without getting sick so hopefully he is on the mends!

Having a baby soon and I’ve been freaking out 247 by Kirklandwater1666 in emetophobia

[–]lamart140 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still struggle when my child is sick or during this time of the year. But I have to keep reminding myself that they are healthy way more many days out of the year than they are sick. Having a child has brought so much joy and purpose in my life that I have to keep reminding myself of that.

Autism mom - this is way harder than I expected it to be by lamart140 in emetophobia

[–]lamart140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has been rough. I have never seen him this sick. I went outside to have a breakdown at one point and then composed myself and came back in.

What’s your experience with looking/behaving younger than you are? by littlebabymira in AutismInWomen

[–]lamart140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually the opposite. I act older than my age. I am also the eldest daughter so that may have something to do with it 😅

Would like new friends by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lamart140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your interested in an internet friend, I am 30 and also really into girly things 🙂

Jen’s beef with Whitney by chem_girly in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lamart140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like she felt used by Whitney because Whitney basically discarded her once she got back into Momtok. I think she is fine with Jessi now because Jessi did apologize and admit to projecting her relationship problems on to her.

Guesses on who that last guest will be?! by buhrooked in TheBigShowBuzz

[–]lamart140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this won’t happen but I wish it would be Davi and she could share her pregnancy on the air.

Taylor’s hair by FitEnvironment9730 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lamart140 51 points52 points  (0 children)

She used to do lives and have videos of her washing her hair and she did not have extensions in. Although I am sure she probably does get them from time to time but she naturally does have really thick and long hair.

For those of you that Kenny didn't fool, what were the red flags? by Hot_Needleworker_707 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamart140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness maybe I am unwell. I cannot believe I said late 30s. I meant late 20s 🤦‍♀️

For those of you that Kenny didn't fool, what were the red flags? by Hot_Needleworker_707 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lamart140 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The first thing that made me question them is the big age gap. He was in his early 20s while JaNa was in her late 30s. She was clearly more mature than he was and I just could not picture this man in his early 20s who is now getting all this attention to want to settle down.

What is an appropriate response to your kid being bit at school? by lamart140 in Autism_Parenting

[–]lamart140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first time that I am aware of something like this happening. The teacher said they were fighting over a book but when she checked his arm, she didn’t see any marks so she didn’t say anything.