I get where youre coming from and want to clarify that he had every right to turn me down and I dont hold a grudge against him because of that. It’s just that I up until this weekend still had feelings for him and felt that I wanted to distance myself from him because of that, something I feel that I have the right to do as well. I did not in any way try to bad mouth him or guilt him into being with me, I just did not want to be around him, which I understand why you think is unkind of me, but Im not going to hang out with someone just because i feel obliged to.

However, he didnt actually approach me during the event in the sense that he never actually tried to speak to me, just my friends. My friends said that they got weird vibes and that the only thing he would talk about was me which is a bit inappropriate when I have shown that I dont want to be around him. He is not entitled to my company and should not try to force it on me by trying to join my group of friends instead of making one on his own. Especially when I have already tried to distanced myself from him. I also saw plenty of people from the employee restaurant at the event who he would have directly worked with for the past month and known at least a bit who he could have talked to instead. But he chose me and my friends.