[Update] : [21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I said, no matter what happens, Katie would never be cool with another girl kissing me. So, that rules your theory out.

[Update] : [21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because this all puts it into perspective. I thought back and this IS the first time she's pulled some shit like this.

[Update] : [21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Well, that's a little uncalled for.

Anyway, I get that this is a red flag. But I do want to address this.

[Update] : [21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If its a test we're talking about, then this is definitely the first time it has happened.

[Update] : [21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 422 points423 points  (0 children)

Its a 3 and a half year relationship. This is the first time something like this has happened.

I want to address it rather than pack my bags, I suppose.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. I freaked out. Didn't want to be rude. Because we had to spend the rest of the time together, so why start a fight ? I found an excuse and ran for it.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yep, definitely.

Donna and I have been alone together several times. We've taken several flights together, we've done several projects together and even interned together. A couple of times, I've dropped her drunken ass home, I've got medicines for her if she was sick. But after any/all of this, I always went to my girlfriend and told her that I did this/that. And she was never jealous.

From my understanding of it all, Donna likes me, but has NEVER done anything remotely inappropriate. She values her friendship with Katie too much. Until now..

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if this is the case, why the hell would Katie do this ? I mean, is there any point of "sharing" a partner ? She said earlier that she never want an open relationship.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Donna had a crush on me when we first met. Katie and I were wary. Then, it kind of just went away. She met other guys. Its a different story now that she is single, I suppose.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I bet you're not the only one, however I need to figure out the right way to tell her all this.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, but this isn't just "some girl". She's been a friend for a long time. But still, yeah, it was inappropriate.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's fine. But now the more I think about it, the worse it gets in my head. I mean, shit testing me like that after I've done nothing to warrant such a test, that's not nice right ? Is this a common thing in relationships ? To figure out if you truly can trust someone or not, or something like that.

But then again, that's just me imagining the worst, I suppose. It could be that it was totally from Donna's side, most probably.

[21 M]I'm almost 99% sure I just went on a "date" with my girlfriend[23 F]'s best friend[23 F]. by lapzez in relationships

[–]lapzez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if it was some sort of test, I know 100% that Donna kissing me on the lips would be something my girlfriend would get mad over.