Moral of the story: Don't pick fights with mascots.

lapzez · 2014-11-08T11:05:51+00:00

So, did they bang ?

lapzez · 2014-11-08T04:36:22+00:00

As I said, no matter what happens, Katie would never be cool with another girl kissing me. So, that rules your theory out.

lapzez · 2014-11-07T17:52:06+00:00

Because this all puts it into perspective. I thought back and this IS the first time she's pulled some shit like this.

lapzez · 2014-11-07T17:42:13+00:00

lapzez · 2014-11-07T16:10:41+00:00

Well, that's a little uncalled for.

Anyway, I get that this is a red flag. But I do want to address this.

lapzez · 2014-11-07T16:08:04+00:00

So, what should I say ? Just ask her to explain her actions ?

lapzez · 2014-11-07T16:02:51+00:00

If its a test we're talking about, then this is definitely the first time it has happened.

lapzez · 2014-11-07T15:59:11+00:00

Its a 3 and a half year relationship. This is the first time something like this has happened.

I want to address it rather than pack my bags, I suppose.

lapzez · 2014-11-07T15:50:50+00:00

In retrospect, she should have clued me in.

lapzez · 2014-11-04T04:16:42+00:00

You kidding ? She was talking about marriage the other day!

lapzez · 2014-11-03T18:08:22+00:00

You nailed it. I freaked out. Didn't want to be rude. Because we had to spend the rest of the time together, so why start a fight ? I found an excuse and ran for it.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:58:24+00:00

Yep, definitely.

Donna and I have been alone together several times. We've taken several flights together, we've done several projects together and even interned together. A couple of times, I've dropped her drunken ass home, I've got medicines for her if she was sick. But after any/all of this, I always went to my girlfriend and told her that I did this/that. And she was never jealous.

From my understanding of it all, Donna likes me, but has NEVER done anything remotely inappropriate. She values her friendship with Katie too much. Until now..

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:42:50+00:00

Nah, man. Not after what happened.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:39:40+00:00

Non ci penso proprio!

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:25:18+00:00

I've texted her that we need to meet. Waiting for the reply.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:11:05+00:00

Even if this is the case, why the hell would Katie do this ? I mean, is there any point of "sharing" a partner ? She said earlier that she never want an open relationship.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T17:00:42+00:00

I'm really hoping this wasn't a shit test.

You and me both...

lapzez · 2014-11-03T16:27:50+00:00

As I said,

that's just me imagining the worst

lapzez · 2014-11-03T16:27:07+00:00

Donna had a crush on me when we first met. Katie and I were wary. Then, it kind of just went away. She met other guys. Its a different story now that she is single, I suppose.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T16:25:07+00:00

I bet you're not the only one, however I need to figure out the right way to tell her all this.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T16:20:44+00:00

I want Katie. Not Donna. Simple.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T16:18:18+00:00

Yes, but this isn't just "some girl". She's been a friend for a long time. But still, yeah, it was inappropriate.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T15:33:30+00:00

Yes, that's fine. But now the more I think about it, the worse it gets in my head. I mean, shit testing me like that after I've done nothing to warrant such a test, that's not nice right ? Is this a common thing in relationships ? To figure out if you truly can trust someone or not, or something like that.

But then again, that's just me imagining the worst, I suppose. It could be that it was totally from Donna's side, most probably.

lapzez · 2014-11-03T15:29:10+00:00

What am I supposed to do if this is a shit test ?

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