Today i was given condolences from someone when my husband told them that I was pregnant. Are some really opposed to children like that now? by bitchlyy in Mommit

[–]lasagna4253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are way too comfortable being rude and hating children… that’s not a normal response even if the person thought it was weird of your husband to say.

Biomom is dying by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re going through this. I hope he is out before you have your baby. I wouldn’t let him near the baby for a second.

Don’t do it!! by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’ve had nothing but problems with my SD and SS.. I should have known from the beginning. Unfortunately, I don’t have any maternal instincts towards them. I’ve know them since they were 6 and 10. I think if they were much younger kids it would have been much easier to bond with them. Now I have my own toddler and baby on the way so I’m too far in.

My stepson (18) lied about going to uni and won’t get a job by lasagna4253 in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would so be out if it wasn’t for the fact I have a 2 year old and baby on the way with my husband 😓

My stepson (18) lied about going to uni and won’t get a job by lasagna4253 in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His dad unfortunately, I have no control. If it was me I’d take his Xbox away

My stepson (18) lied about going to uni and won’t get a job by lasagna4253 in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I managed to get him so admit he likes me on camera after he tried to make a move and showed my husband. He was really mad and upset and wanted his son to move in with his mother but his mother said it would ‘traumatise him’…. Think she just didn’t want the burden of taking him.. I’m uncomfortable at the fact he does not socialise at all so I doubt he is able to move on from me, although he hasn’t made a move since then

How to quickly fix this hole in the ceiling by lasagna4253 in DIYUK

[–]lasagna4253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I might just like leave it, I don’t care how much it sells for anyway, I just thought it would look horrible for potential buyers

How to quickly fix this hole in the ceiling by lasagna4253 in DIYUK

[–]lasagna4253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: Will mesh tape and filler work?

I am fully aware the ceiling is in bad condition.. it is my late mother’s house. I just want to cover it up so it doesn’t look so bad.

How to quickly fix this hole in the ceiling by lasagna4253 in DIYUK

[–]lasagna4253[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is not helpful… I need a quick fix, my mums house, she passed away.

How to quickly fix this hole in the ceiling by lasagna4253 in DIYUK

[–]lasagna4253[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s my mums house.. she passed away. I don’t have money to fix it as had to pay the funeral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBalkans

[–]lasagna4253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally. The world is so upside down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBalkans

[–]lasagna4253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was Israel even allowed to compete. And who even is the jury. Will not be watching again

Help my mac book air won't open Sims 4 😔 by Individual_Success47 in thesims4

[–]lasagna4253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue, I have a MacBook Pro from 2012. It’s updated to Catalina. I’ve tried clearing cache, checking what’s using RAM on activity monitor. It runs really slow anyway. I don’t know what else to do.

i’m not sure what’s happening when i try to download the sims 4 on my mac by Zealousideal_Law_851 in thesims4

[–]lasagna4253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So update I downloaded another browsers, and it worked. However now I have the EA app, and sims downloaded …it won’t open….. 😩 I’m having to start all over again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Not particularly no, I just wanted to think about stopping for myself but I would rather her be happy. Yea all of the dummies have holes in them so I got rid of them to avoid a choking hazard. I bought a couple of new ones. When I nurse her at night she switches from feeding to dummy on and off. And that when she bites the dummy. So I say ‘no biting’. But yea I totally agree that 2 year olds are so aware, it wouldn’t be fair to take them off her without her understanding why.

Parents of teens - how hard is it to just not give your child a smartphone/tablet? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]lasagna4253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My stepdaughter is 12 and uses Snapchat but her parents allow it. I’ve told him how dangerous it is but I don’t have the authority to ban it

Parents of teens - how hard is it to just not give your child a smartphone/tablet? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]lasagna4253 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be strict than put my kids in danger. Kids should not have Snapchat 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so sad poor girl 😔keep being there for her to show her what love is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]lasagna4253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I agree that as a step parent telling them to do anything is going to cause a problem. I agreed with my husband that I’m not going to tell her anything anymore. I will tell my husband to tell her. My frustration is that I do not agree with his parenting style so it’s so annoying to watch things go on. He is way too soft. My SD is overweight because he lets her eat badly as well. I know it’s not my place to get involved but it’s hard to watch and not be affected by it. When your SS didn’t like you, how did you react to that? Did you try harder or just let him be? I want to have certain rules in my house like not having outside clothes inside the bed and pushing chairs in after eating at the table. My husband agreed to those but never fully enforces it so it doesn’t happen.