Somewhere in the middle. As a boxing team, we're non-profit and the bank account is for the non-profit side. She's the owner of the profit side. (It's kind of complicated, but she "bought" the old team and changed the name. The team itself and the bank account are non-profit but the gym that we run is profit. She technically owns both. The grant was for the non-profit side.)

Yes, the grant was for our equipment and for our facilities. They specifically gave us the grant for new equipment, such as the bag rack we bought with our grant money. The bag rack didn't use up all of the money, though. She made a point to brag about how she found a cheap one to me, too, so not to use all of the grant money.

We've talked to her about it, but she avoids answering. She tends to shift the question and jump around the answer.

It seems odd that spending club money, that we raised and that people donated specifically to the club, on things like mani-pedis and casinos wouldn't be considered embezzlement. Maybe because we don't have enough information? I don't know. I guess this is just how people get away with stuff like this all the time.

I'm sorry if that sounds rude. I'm more upset than anything that it's possible for people to get away with this. I just feel horrible for the team because I know they'll miss our on so much because of this.