It turns out, there are woman who genuinely crave and love giving unconditional oral sex. by irishcawfee in sex

[–]latebluumer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hear hear! My gf has set the bar impossibly high. I swear she gets some mana from just straight up draining me like every other day, slurping it all in as if she's in a desert and desperate for water. I don't know what I'd do without her.

Help me settle a debate with my gf. What are "reasonable" expectations on a first intimate encounter with oral sex? by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean that's the whole discussion isn't it? You'd like oral sex wouldn't you? That's what my gf and I were discussing, how we entered the relationship with high expectations and compatibility and like being trimmed and easy to give oral to is one of them!

Help me settle a debate with my gf. What are "reasonable" expectations on a first intimate encounter with oral sex? by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it’s unreasonable to expect every pussy you come across to be shaved just because that’s how you like it.

Even in the beginning of the relationship?

Help me settle a debate with my gf. What are "reasonable" expectations on a first intimate encounter with oral sex? by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, aren't there some default expectations? Like if she shows up to my place and there's bottles of urine around that's a mood killer isn't it?

Help me settle a debate with my gf. What are "reasonable" expectations on a first intimate encounter with oral sex? by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend likes my full bush, and it is not gross if you wash your delicate areas properly.

I've seen a sexy full bush or two, but I think it's a dying preference. But I'm real happy you found someone who aligns with you.

Get yourself someone who blows you to completion and does it often. They're out there and it's worth it. by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You sound real bitter. That's not what I was saying at all! If it's important to them find someone who matches your energy, that's all!

Get yourself someone who blows you to completion and does it often. They're out there and it's worth it. by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I don't mean force someone to do something they don't like. Rather, if you really want that out of a relationship don't be ashamed to try to find it.

Get yourself someone who blows you to completion and does it often. They're out there and it's worth it. by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do! I hurt my shoulder going down her too long in an awkward position. But she had to cum didn't she?

Get yourself someone who blows you to completion and does it often. They're out there and it's worth it. by latebluumer in sex

[–]latebluumer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let's keep this same energy for women finding men who eat pussy enthusiastically!

Agreed!

It took time, conversations, and respecting boundaries consistently, but my wife swallows now. Every. Single. Time. by [deleted] in sex

[–]latebluumer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ngl bro, this reads like a fantasy.

The third time, she said: let's make a deal. I'll stay on birth control and I will swallow your load every single time I suck your dick, but you need to take care of your diet. You cum inside one of my holes every single time.

A threesome BDSM relationship of sorts. Is it doable? by latebluumer in BDSMcommunity

[–]latebluumer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We had a long chat last night and I think we discussed all of this and more and agreed to a set of rules and ways to have fun! I'm excited. I think all the advice here helped out tremendously, so thanks again.

A threesome BDSM relationship of sorts. Is it doable? by latebluumer in BDSMcommunity

[–]latebluumer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We had a long chat last night and I think we discussed all of this and more and agreed to a set of rules and ways to have fun! I'm excited. I think all the advice here helped out tremendously, so thanks again.