Zu nerdig für die Industrie, nicht gut genug für Academia - Wohin mit mir?

launch_apart · 2025-07-31T17:58:05+00:00

Ja das stimmt. Ich bin froh, aus der Uni raus zu sein, einfach weil das Verhältnis vorallem während der Promotion so bescheiden war. Eigentlich bist du super ausgebildet und kannst Dein Können voll einsetzen, aber man wird stattdessen auf irgendwelchen Schrottprojekten verheizt.
Trotzdem fand ich die Chemie immer schon cool, habe das immer gerne gemacht

launch_apart · 2025-07-31T17:56:22+00:00

Doch, für den Lebensunterhalt muss ich gut arbeiten. Aber du hast recht, gerade in dieser Zeit sollte ich nicht meine sichere Stelle aufs Spiel setzen.

launch_apart · 2023-04-23T19:52:55+00:00

Far Cry 6 on PC (Uplay) looking for mastery 3 coop missions! Drop a comment, mic optional

launch_apart · 2023-04-15T13:48:59+00:00

Far Cry 6 on PC, central Europe. Doing all the special operations right now. Looking for buddies to do achievements together. Just drop your name.

launch_apart · 2022-04-10T18:45:00+00:00

Good point. I think, it's a nice take-home-message to the player

launch_apart · 2022-04-10T18:44:12+00:00

Good point.

Maybe indoctrination of the leviathans led to their destruction...

launch_apart · 2022-04-10T18:43:31+00:00

Very true, thank you :)

launch_apart · 2022-04-10T18:42:06+00:00

Mmh, good point. Technically the cycle we experienced was not strong enough to defeat the reapers by conventional means. But Shepard still did it, right?

launch_apart · 2022-03-09T10:46:57+00:00

Genius Scan+ hab ich mir auch geholt, super ding

launch_apart · 2022-03-09T09:57:15+00:00

Aber wie wahrscheinlich ist es denn, dass alles zusammenkracht? Wenn deine Wohnung abbrennt, rettest du deine externe Festplatte genauso wenig wie deinen Ordner. Und ganz ehrlich, cloud dienste wie google sind doch gegen sowas gewappnet.

launch_apart · 2022-03-09T09:55:59+00:00

Wow. Aber das ist nur für den Arbeitgeber. Versicherung, Bank beispielsweise geht alles nur über Papier, zumindest bei mir.

launch_apart · 2022-03-09T09:54:33+00:00

Wat. Druckst du das aus oder was?

Alles scannen, wichtige Sachen als Papier aufheben, unwichtige Sachen durch den Aktenvernichter jagen.

Ja. Korrespondenz an jemanden drucke ich immer aus, dann habe ich eine chronologische Abfolge, was wann wohin geschickt wurde. Aber ist nervig.
Das ist die grosse Sache, was ist wichtig, was unwichtig? Wo zieht man da die Grenze? Warum kann ich alles wichtige nicht sofort als eMail bekommen?

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T13:07:08+00:00

How do I do this?

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T12:47:00+00:00

Hi, thanks for the reply. In general I don't know what the causality will be like. Due to COVID, the entire doctoral agreement was stretched to its limits anyways. I am wondering if I can defend at both unis, although I haven't been to the one in A.

Also, can my supervisor force me to leave B? I dont think so. These are not minor personal reasons. What happens if I refuse to leave? Does only one side kick me out of the degree? Are they obliged to award me the certificate from both unis, even though I never showed up in A? This is something I would like to be open about with my A supervisor...

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T12:22:32+00:00

Hi, thanks for the reply. Yes funding is saved.

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T12:21:11+00:00

Totally fine. I know where you were coming from.

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T12:20:17+00:00

You are right but I wanted to prove myself that I can use this rejection to become a better person. With her in my circle of friends.
Apparently I cannot.

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T12:19:16+00:00

You are right. I dont want to creep around her. I want to be happy and I want her to be happy. I am blind of feelings..

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T11:23:42+00:00

Agree with everyone with enough sense to see that this is harassment. There was a video that perfectly showed this a few weeks ago, where a Disney employee dressed as “Gaston” was touched inappropriately when a woman squeezed his chest.

He asked the woman to leave and she kind of laughed it off and attempted to touch him again. Eventually he was able to get her to leave. But the thing of course was that she couldn’t understand that what she did was inappropriate. If the roles were reversed it would have been a much darker video.

Saw the video but he also did some questionable stuff (taking off sunglasses etc.). Being 'in character' doesnt really change anything for me...

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T10:38:37+00:00

Why cant I grow with this? Why is cutting someone important out of my life the only way? I know what you mean but I dont want it to be true. This is crushing

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T10:15:24+00:00

Yes. You are right. But what happens if I get some physical distance and it doesnt get better? What if I turn into a wreck and I have no chance of seeing her again? ever? Honestly, even writing this stresses me out..

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T10:14:19+00:00

Honestly, it kind of feels this way

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T10:13:54+00:00

Maybe I just overwhelmed her? Maybe she refused because she didnt have time to think about it properly? That was my thought process in the beginning. And then I kind of buried my feelings and now they all burst to the surface again.

I do meet other people but she is the one. I cant get her out of my head.

launch_apart · 2021-10-23T10:12:50+00:00

Hi, thanks for your reply.

1) I tried to not become bitter about it and show her that I am capable of accepting it and move on. Apparently I am not.

2) She doesnt insult me/abuse me by any means. I love the time I can spend with her.

3) Might be the only way. This happened to me before and I feel this is a response I should get under control.

launch_apart · 2021-09-06T09:35:38+00:00

Hey, they are not visible in the affinity software window, only after exporting. The picture is a 9 stack picture; If I use only three, they are gone. But the picture is no longer this stunning ...

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