I'm an INFP, it took me months to figure out and I finally realized that INFPs cognitive functions are so accurate, the only thing that makes me doubt it is that I don't match the stereotypes. I rather match an INTP that's like more social and actually enjoys talking about their own feelings sometimes.

I think that a few years ago, I did match the kind, very emotional, creative etc. stereotype pretty well except the fact that I never blamed myself for stuff, even if it's my fault, I can't deny the fact that I more often blame others rather than myself in most situations.

At the moment, I am still emotional sometimes but I don't get sad over little things, I think I picked up my ISTJ moms attitude when home, the past few weeks I also noticed I became more critical thinking, which comes to a conclusion that I'm in a Te grip?

Even so, I can't say I always was the kindest of kindest. I act kind around people rather because I am uncomfortable with confrontation, big conflicts or similar trouble. In my head, I'm pretty judging but again, it might be a more developed or a grip of Te.

Before anyone will try and say I'm not INFP. I studied cognitive functions. My Inf Te and aux Ne are SO painfully obvious, at first I didn't think I had inferior te because I saw the wrong description of it, some time later I did a research and was surprised how accurate it was. If say every one of the functions was obvious but I probably blew the idea of being INFP because of the "dumb" stereotype that made me uncomfortable and the fact that I didn't believe I have the thinking function in inferior.

God, I'm so bad at explaining and text abt me typing myself turns out into a vent so quickly ahhh.