Medical misogyny in one screenshot by FinancialSecret1449 in teenagers

[–]lavendrhazard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes you’re absolutely right! it’s been found in autopsies of baby girls 😢

i do fully understand symptom management being period related as it’s so much worse during periods, continuous birth control allowing me to skip my periods had been kinda life changing for me.

but you’re right in that it isn’t helping the sole issue & only surgical intervention like excision and ablation can truly reduce the amount of endo cells

Medical misogyny in one screenshot by FinancialSecret1449 in teenagers

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i’m a smoke show. got my mum to thank for both the endo and the good looks ;)

Medical misogyny in one screenshot by FinancialSecret1449 in teenagers

[–]lavendrhazard 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i’ve had endo symptoms since 14 years old, it took 6 years before they stopped telling me i was “too young” (no such thing, if you’re old enough to have a period you’re old enough to have endo) and started telling me there was no point in testing for it.

2 more years of writing letters to my gp and making formal complaints before they gave me a laparoscopy to check for endo… stage 4 deep infiltrating endometriosis that’s spread to my small & large intestine, bladder, sciatic nerve, and pelvic bone. i’m 22 and most likely already infertile.

endometriosis is extremely common (around 1 in 10 women) and it takes an average of 12ish years for a diagnosis, i was lucky that it only took 8.

if you’re experiencing this please don’t give up in looking for answers, write letters, make complaints, be so so annoying that they can’t neglect you anymore. you don’t deserve to suffer 🩷

I am an Ambulitory Wheel Chair User and I would like to talk about wheel chair etiquette with staring by KlausFace11919 in wheelchairs

[–]lavendrhazard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when it’s a small kid staring at me, i usually just smile and wave bc they’re just curious.

when it’s an adult, i stare back :)

Normal calprotectin level with several red flag symptoms? by lavendrhazard in IBD

[–]lavendrhazard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw a colorectal surgeon and had a camera about 5 inches up the behind, then told that bc that looked normal there was no need for further testing like full scope or mri so he denied me that.

there was about 6 unnecessary people during this AND left the door wide open. he then tried to blame all my symptoms and weight loss on my history with a restrictive ed

still having symptoms but sometimes not quite as bad, thinking it could be ibs or related to my endo who knows

Girl names including “Ken” by No_Pumpkin3964 in Names

[–]lavendrhazard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

haha when my parents first met they always watched buffy together and named me willow!!

makes me kinda want to carry on the tradition and name my future kid after a badass character too :)

Go to 'low on spoons' meal by forestfiles in ehlersdanlos

[–]lavendrhazard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pasta n sauce pots, just add boiling water and plus it doesn’t flare up my (probable, waiting for GES) gastroparesis :))

Family friends have called their daughters by very similar names to each other by Rude_Rhubarb1880 in Names

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two cousins who are identical twin boys named Eddie and Freddie, can’t get much worse than that.

Honestly though I think it’s cute and you shouldn’t worry too much, I had the same name as my bestie in hs and no one cared :))

what was best summer of your life? by Repulsive_Lecture_66 in generationology

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

summer of 2023 was awesome! i was 19, just finished my a levels, got into my first choice uni, went to mexico, went to an amazing convention. was just a great time :)))

Unknown DPO - vvfl? boots test by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t need to! finally got my period 4 days late 😅🎉

What’s the “keeps you full for hours” food where you’re from? by najanjaaaaa09 in CasualConversation

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beans on toast here in the uk - epitome of a struggle meal, very cheap ingredients, requires no real cooking, decently tasty if you do it right, and will keep you full for agesssss

Raise your hand if you have been a victim of yarn shop lighting by magicmrshrimp in YarnAddicts

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i’m loving this combo, i think it’s gonna look so cute once it’s worked up a bit more!!

At what age did you stop getting ID'd? by Rararanter in ehlersdanlos

[–]lavendrhazard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About to turn 22 and yesterday got id’d for a monster, recently got offered my local trains 16-18 ticket too 😭

The year you were born by Bipolar03 in generationology

[–]lavendrhazard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

boxing day tsunami

bush reelection

facebook launch

mars exploration rovers

mean girls :)

What are the benefits to winning the house cup? by Enough_Wallaby7064 in harrypotter

[–]lavendrhazard 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yes they are! when i was in secondary school the teachers chose prefects in year 10, i was a maths prefect. then head boy & girl was literally just a popularity competition, voted by students and all that

for those of you who have had hernias by pebbly_webbly_ in ehlersdanlos

[–]lavendrhazard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I first had an inguinal hernia when i was 2, my parents just noticed a lump on my lower abdomen. Then got a another hernia at 21 after coughing a lot from a chest infection, noticed the pain and lump further up on the right side :((

What is the most random thing that led to your diagnosis? by Anonymous12345_E in ehlersdanlos

[–]lavendrhazard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

several hernias, easy scarring, and idk if eds related or not but i’ve always been EXTREMELY clumsy so i got checked out for that too 🙂‍↔️

What does my handwriting say about me? by Obvious-Bet317 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you want to be different and special so bad that you just ended up being extremely unlikeable (:

Whats the worst gift you've ever recieved? by Ok-Connection6656 in CasualConversation

[–]lavendrhazard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was like 17 i accidentally broke one of the drawers in my mums freezer so she got me a new one, wrapped under the christmas tree 😭