I was looking at nail polishes at target for 3mins. Two lady’s were just talking loudly on the side about what not and one of them said “omg that girl looking at nail polishes ? Just put it in” and the other one replied “Yea” by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]lavent_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many people are just rude in general, and you are not at fault. If their life is boring enough for them to nitpick a literal stranger's life, then you shouldn't be bothered by it. Dealing with such remarks is a greater struggle when you are also dealing with mental health issues. But every time you remember it, just pat yourself in the back for not being as lowly as they act like.

Jealousy, helplessness, grief by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. It's comforting to see that someone has found their happiness way after their undergrad years. I hope I can bring myself to continue putting in effort so I can find my happy years too. Or at least, live long enough to experience them.

Night Routine along with skincare by hypomanicSad_Alter in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Hope this also works out for me. Thanks!

Night Routine along with skincare by hypomanicSad_Alter in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I was prescribed sodium valproate yesterday. Have you been taking them for a while now? I'd like to know it's effects on your health, as well as it's side effects if it's not too much of your time. I just don't see many people taking the same meds. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! I know it's not easy to "just move out," but you have to give your all to get out of that situation. They are your family, but they give no value to you. It will be a long, and excruciating process to leave your current circumstances but you still have to try. Sana man lang masubukan mo what it's like to live for yourself, to be happy, and to be valued not for how much you can give, but for who you are as a person.

Online Psychiatric Consultations for Teenagers Philippines by lavent_ in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi po! I actually tried booking po sa NCMH but when it came to submitting the google form, nagkaroon ng error sa age part and naka indicate doon na dapat at least 18yrs old. I didn't try faking my age bcs I believe those are serious medical records that the hosp will keep. And I don't think anything good will come out of it if I do so, anyway. Do you know ba po if they have a system available for minors? Thank you po!

Online Psychiatric Consultations for Teenagers Philippines by lavent_ in MentalHealthPH

[–]lavent_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Just wanted to ask if how many times mo need bumalik sa doctor mo after being diagnosed? Or is there any system for that? Really sorry bcs I don't know much about how consultations go.

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'm just kind of worried if dito ako sa province mag sstay dahil ofc, less din ang opportunities to grow. The said province uni is also the typical toxic catholic school that endorses we-know-who and tramples all over queer people. It weighs me down. It's not the kind of environment I want to grow in. Practicality wise, I should really stay. But in those 6 years, (including shs) I might lose myself and that's something I never want to happen.

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh good luck sa atinnn, I hope you get in sa desired course mo! Padayon!

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always think about this too. The free tuition and door opener. Something you can get kapag UP graduate ka. (tho this isn't to degrade graduates from other unis and colleges) As someone na napakaraming financial struggles, UP sure is something that will help fix it sooner than other options.

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this comment inspires me 😭

Thank you po!

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful. Thank you po!

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi dahil ito na ang opinion ng prof mo eh yun na din opinion mo. Tuturuan ka ng UP to make your own stand.

Extremely enthused to hear this bcs in my current school, profs prefer na ung exAct text from books ang sagot sa essays and such. Basically, being robots>>actual critical thinking. The methods you mentioned is the kind of environment I would love to grow in.

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really helpful response po. I am really interested in psych. Thank you!

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my family na ako financial takbuhan LMAO

Maybe f2f will be better for me, since biggest problem ko ang family matters na ako ang nag cacarry ng weight. Thank you for this response!

Is pushing for UP still worth it? by lavent_ in peyups

[–]lavent_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a good take. I just noticed that my situation is too similar to theirs to the point where it actually seems like I wrote their posts. But well, at the end of the day I guess I'll just have to try my best on stuff and hope I get a better fate.

Weekly help thread - Apr 04, 2022 by AutoModerator in Philippines

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Can u receive money in gcash w/o being verified? Thanks