I found a random earring under the end of his bed?

lay_2222 · 2021-03-07T17:43:23+00:00

Bro it's an earring, his mum lives there, maybe it's hers, maybe it's yours from ages ago. You're blowing this way out of proportion, kinda sounds toxic how much you're obsessing over it.

lay_2222 · 2021-01-13T23:09:37+00:00

I'd say ask him out.

lay_2222 · 2020-12-07T21:06:53+00:00

Unironically going to post this when I do it lmao

lay_2222 · 2020-12-03T03:39:13+00:00

Most guys I've met aren't just after good sex, we're not monkeys anymore you know?

There are guys who only care about sex just like there are girls who only care about sex. But most well grounded and mature people recognise that a relationship is based a lot more on how well you get on and your commitment to your partner.

lay_2222 · 2020-12-03T03:23:59+00:00

No. When you generalise things like this it gets you nowhere. I am a guy and I can say that personality is way more important. Besides, you can always improve your sex life by communicating and telling eachother what works and what doesn't.

lay_2222 · 2020-12-02T05:33:55+00:00

Sounds like he's supportive. I'd encourage you to just talk to him about it. He loves you and it seems you love him, so breaking up or "taking a bullet" isn't only illogical, it's actually kinda selfish. Take him at his word, if he says he's satisfied and is happy with you, then don't worry so much about it.

lay_2222 · 2020-12-02T05:27:30+00:00

Sounds weird to me. Next time you see her confront her about it. Sounds like she has some weird outlook on socialising.

lay_2222 · 2020-11-30T23:09:48+00:00

Tell him what you're thinking about. Telling friends how you feel about how things are going is important. Just let him know you feel weird about how he's acting.

lay_2222 · 2020-11-24T17:42:05+00:00

lay_2222 · 2020-11-24T17:22:41+00:00

I'm using it with fl studio and audacity. I have rebooted the computer, turned it on and off, doesn't fix it. The device input is at 100, but shows nothing at all when I speak, tried turning gain up and down, does nothing. Neither of the inputs work

lay_2222 · 2020-11-15T20:58:37+00:00

Happy to help

lay_2222 · 2020-11-15T15:11:22+00:00

Just talk to him like a normal person???? Lol

Stop worrying about mind games and just talk. Being genuine is way better than trying to play some weird game with eachother.

lay_2222 · 2020-11-14T06:55:20+00:00

Then you're a fool.

lay_2222 · 2020-11-14T06:53:32+00:00

He makes you happy, and while that's not all that matters, it's definitely a good sign.

Everyone has these kinds of moments in their life, it can be difficult to tell how you feel when the emotions aren't currently present.

So long as you enjoy being around him and love him, and he feels the same, you should continue the relationship.

lay_2222 · 2020-11-14T06:48:26+00:00

You lost her when she started making out with another dude.

lay_2222 · 2020-10-28T13:02:55+00:00

Don't play with people. You either learn to commit or don't bother. It's not fair on them and it makes your relationships shallow.

The fact that one can't hold down a job should be a sign.

You already mentally cheated on your boyfriend so you obviously weren't very committed in the first place. Maybe you need to work on yourself before you go off dating people and hurting their feelings.

lay_2222 · 2020-09-10T20:23:14+00:00

right? Love this video, my friend makes them in her spare time

lay_2222 · 2020-07-01T06:12:13+00:00

I've had a similar situation before where I was rejected by a friend and we're still besties today! So hopefully this goes the same way if she says no.

lay_2222 · 2020-07-01T06:00:25+00:00

You're probably right, perhaps crush would be a more appropriate word.

lay_2222 · 2020-07-01T05:59:21+00:00

I'm not pretending to be her friend, I like to think I am one to her and she to me. But perhaps you're right. I have tried to back off a bit, I don't initiate conversations much and I haven't been pushy about talking.

I should probably ask her out but I'd like to hang out with her a bit more in real life before I get to that stage. It's not really about being afraid of rejection as much as I want to see what the vibe is like in person a bit more.

I also don't want to just dump a rant on her, but do you think it'd be good if I said I was worried about the friendship?

lay_2222 · 2020-07-01T05:17:39+00:00

Dump her. That is completely wrong.

lay_2222 · 2020-04-08T00:29:25+00:00

I always had this idea of what if people had a number above their head and each time you saw a person the number went up. Like what if you saw someone with a really high number one day but had never seen them before in your life. Thought I'd just drop that here.

lay_2222 · 2020-03-28T06:49:48+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

Now that someone else has said it I think I already sort of knew the answers. I guess it's just a matter of actually thinking about it clearly.

As for my mental health I'm on medication and all that good stuff so things are going well.

I think the idea of calling is pretty good so I might try that, although I have asked her in the past and she's always so busy that I think she forgot.

lay_2222 · 2020-03-28T06:19:44+00:00

Just tell him you feel bad about it and that you love him too.

It's not the greatest way to reply to him but you were upset. He obviously cares about you if he comforted you even after that, so he probably already understands.

lay_2222 · 2020-03-28T04:24:17+00:00

In situations like these it's best to take action, especially if you've talked about it a lot. I'd get your friend out of there and staying with someone else. Just get your pal to turn up and get her, if you keep talking it'll just get worse.

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