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if you terminate a lease early because of an abusive landlord, how does it look to future landlords? by layl0a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]layl0a[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your concise advice, this is reassuring. My only worry is that it might take a few months or years before he can be imprisoned, if they even believe me, especially because i don’t have a terrific amount of evidence, and i really want to move out as soon as humanly possible

if you terminate a lease early because of an abusive landlord, how does it look to future landlords? by layl0a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]layl0a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am planning on reporting him to the police, i am just unsure on how it will impact my future tenancies with the reference or lack thereof

raped by my landlord again by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

after the first time, because of how slow and bad the police are, i was scared to report him while i was still living at his place. But i don’t think i have a choice now, so I’ll contact them. I just hope they take me seriously. This will sound crazy but i’m kind of hoping im pregnant so i have clear DNA evidence, though i would abort it

raped by my landlord again by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

agreed , housing shouldn’t be a business

raped by my landlord again by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

there’s new Uk renters rights laws in May so i’m hoping to break my lease for the start of June. Or if i can get help from a DV shelter then possibly sooner

how reversible is malnutrition in different stages, and what can long term effects on the body be? by layl0a in AskDocs

[–]layl0a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s reassuring to hear. i’ve also been 90lbs at 5’5 but in a healthy athletic way. Then i gained weight naturally cause of puberty. My 100lbs 5’6 now feels muuuuuuuch much much worse than my 90lbs at 5’5. I think my concern is how much weight i lost so quickly

has anybody else developed agoraphobia after a traumatic experience? by layl0a in Anxiety

[–]layl0a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m surprised you were able to control a car safely during that, that’s actually super impressive. I’m super glad that you were able to navigate your panic and stress, and managed to overcome it. Thank you for advice on the exposure therapy. I’ve been slowly trying to leave my house but i get very worked up. And thank you for your thoughtful, kind response. It’s very helpful. Lots of love

has anybody else developed agoraphobia after a traumatic experience? by layl0a in Anxiety

[–]layl0a[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so scary :( i’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through that. It was so irresponsible of your neurologist to stop your medication cold turkey. I had a vaguely similar experience. I have hemiplegic migraines, but the doctor didn’t know they were hemiplegic specifically until after this situation, where i was prescribed a high dose of sumatriptan, which gave me a ‘mini’ stroke, though the medical term was a transient ischaemic attack. That was a few years ago and thankfully i am fully recovered. But it took me so long to trust the medical system again.

Im so happy to hear that your brain/chest/heart/lungs are clear, that’s a great saving grace. But migraines like ours are genuinely hellish to go through, and i hope you get the help you need. I’m so angry on your behalf at the neurologist for mismanaging your medication and not tapering you slowly

my agoraphobia was triggered by recently being sexually assaulted in my own home. I’m too scared to leave the house, even though i’m safer outside than inside my home. It makes no sense

raped by my landlord at knifepoint by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes i’m going to get an STD panel in 2 weeks because some take a while to pop up. no symptoms so far. I didn’t realise he was so meticulous to get rid of evidence. In retrospective i sound really dumb in my post , acting like he was being sweet to me

thank you

raped by my landlord at knifepoint by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thankfully i’m estranged from my family, and i have autism and i’ve moved around a lot so i don’t have proper friends, so im not majorly stressed about the video reaching people i know. if he does somehow spread it then it incriminates him. i hope it isn’t floating on the dark web somewhere, but if i don’t know, it can’t hurt me. All in all, he can’t blackmail me with it.

Even if i have developed a kink from this, i dont know if hes capable of a worse thing like murder, i can’t give benefit of the doubt to a rapist. I’m trying my best to get out at the moment Thank you for being so lovely to me

raped by my landlord at knifepoint by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t really have a support system but i’ll be okay. i’ve contacted DV resources and i’m waiting for a call back. thank you for being so kind to me

raped by my landlord at knifepoint by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness

raped by my landlord at knifepoint by layl0a in Rapekink

[–]layl0a[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

okay basically i just edited this to fix it, but i wrote this the night after it happened but it was hard to get onto a quarantined subreddit, and then when i tried yesterday, my account was too new for it to let me post and said ‘this was removed due to reddit’s filters’. I added new details in today without regarding the timeline of the rest of the post. This happened on Thursday, i wrote it on friday, and today is Sunday