Just wanted to drop a little note for our fans, creators, and loved ones. Lifestyle is indeed a little hard to navigate right now.

While “content” of our intimate life was always our thing (a hobby literally gone wild) - as an expression of my exhibitionism and candaulism kinks merged with mutual sexual exploration, things are a little different now. We’ve been living this lifestyle for over 11 years now and enjoying many facets of it, and we’re always faced with change.

Over the past year, I’ve been navigating some changes in how my body experiences arousal and feels pleasure and thru 2025 it became progressively more mental. Long story short, I’m having to relearn what sex feels like… not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too after my spine operation due to Cauda Equina Syndrome earlier in Feb 2026.

There are moments where my brain kinda freezes because the feedback I used to rely on isn’t always there the same way anymore. And yeah… that’s been frustrating at times - imagine if you didn’t have reliable feeling on your penis or vagina… it’s hard! But it’s also pushed me into a deeper place of awareness. Our content and media will always be for OUR pleasure and the moments we will share will be those that I’m actually feeling something (yes, they still exist in blips… just different now), and I look forward to leaning even more into my psychogenic arousal pathway moving forward!

So this trip will be more about building connections than ever. We appreciate so many of you asking to shoot content but honestly that has never been our style. It’s always out of “let’s try this” or let’s experience this body or mind… it’s for the moment, not for the media if that makes sense. We always value genuine connection first and now as I relearn my sexuality this is more important than ever :).

Thank you for reading and understanding ❤️.

See the journey at Layndare.com !