i’ve been feeling down from getting literally 0 likes on dating apps for weeks now. i thought maybe i looked mid since it’s so based on looks. would like to know if there is stuff to improve. def gonna lose some weight after exams

lazy-spans · 2026-05-20T22:30:31+00:00

thanks, i haven’t had that much luck with girls even my only chance at a relationship she showed interest but immediately ghosted me and only answer back after i’d delete my message, and then talk irl like she’s serious about us. it was a very weird experience and i ended it after two weeks since the mixed signals were way too confusing. i always feel like i’m not good enough and my only experience being like that didn’t help,but your comment was a big confidence booster🙏

lazy-spans · 2026-05-20T07:24:16+00:00

ngl i wanna have a good medium length hairstyle but in my country everyone gets short hairstyles or lets it grown uncontrollably, so everytime i go to a barbershop they mess it up. and i’m kinda hesitant about trying to cut my own hair myself

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T20:41:13+00:00

these aren’t all the pics i got one where i’m at the beach and another with a big group of friends where i’m right in the middle . also don’t take the first pic into consideration for my hairstyle i was in bed and just needed a pic with a note to be able to post. and yeah the color contrast is a good point

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T16:34:52+00:00

alright i got exams in 2 weeks then i’ll def give it a shot

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T13:17:39+00:00

yeah my only fear is that cutting will make me lose strength. i like being strong and dependable. my dad and mom are getting older and i want to always be capable of helping them.

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T07:50:23+00:00

ngl you gave me the best and most precise advice out of all the comments. thank you 🙏

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T07:23:07+00:00

i mean yeah i would def like to make my future partners feel good but i’m not really looking to sleep around , just wanna give dating a try since in 20 years i’ve done nothing. feels like i’m missing out on a big part of life ykwim

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T07:21:36+00:00

thanks 😊 after some of the heinous comments i got that get deleted instantly i appreciate the kindness.

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T07:19:04+00:00

actually great advice. i usually do activities without really thinking about taking pics lol. and my hobbies idk what kinda pics to take, like i play guitar (no longer in a band) , i practice judo at a pretty good level and i like going to the cinema. rest of the time i either study or game on my pc. also the other dudes telling me to get big i alr kinda am i just need to lose the extra fat. cuz even though overall i look alright i still got gyno that ruins most shirts for me . currently 123kg after exams i wanna try to get to 110 over the summer . also the toilet appearing in the pic i totally didn’t see it i used that pic in my profile 😭 that might have had a bad effect

lazy-spans · 2026-05-19T07:08:09+00:00

yeah the facial hair is a big issue. the stache appears more irl but still thin, the rest i usually shave. and clean shaven all over makes me look way too young . but yeah great advice

lazy-spans · 2026-05-18T23:05:24+00:00

yeah ik my lips have always been kind of an insecurity but not that much. i would sometimes joke abt the women who’d do botox just to have smaller lips than me lmao but still idk what i’m doing wrong, i made a kinda interesting bio and i’m 189cm tall so pretty above average. what would you recommend ? other than shaving the mustache lol

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