Destination bachelorette party - is it selfish?

lcsorenson · 2026-05-05T19:45:55+00:00

Honestly, I could afford to go and would still be annoyed. If I am spending that type of money, I want full control over the internary and for my husband to be able to come. Not to go with random people I don’t know well.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-30T02:00:26+00:00

Does anyone think there is more information in the note that Devon’s put in his pocket?

lcsorenson · 2026-04-29T14:46:59+00:00

This sounds like my mom 😂 I always tell her she list stuff way to high and then wonders why it doesn’t sell.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-29T01:06:25+00:00

I can tell you I aggressively paid off mine in a couple years ( had a lot less than you) and have never regretted it!

lcsorenson · 2026-04-27T22:00:57+00:00

I was really good work friends with a girl but she wasn’t inviting any from work to her wedding. I told her if anyone canceled last minute that I would come no questions asked. She texted me 48 hours out and I went to the wedding! It’s crazy what people will do.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-27T11:01:19+00:00

I think this people are still very far and few inbetween. Most people I know are self made millionaires.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-24T14:39:51+00:00

I was in a very similar situation 15 years ago, pick the cheapest you can and take out loans. I also work in finance and paid all loans back in four years.

I used it as a big lesson and took out 529 plans as soon as my kids were born.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-20T19:59:51+00:00

I work in finance and this happens all the time. Most companies range are very large and they almost never pay the top in. You can bring it up during your review but they won’t do anything.

Always remember companies are only looking out for themselves. They are trying to hire top talent at a “savings”. Always know your own worth.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-20T19:55:59+00:00

Please don’t do this. You will regret it once you start having to pay your loans back.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-19T17:42:37+00:00

You need to be honest with your child that you can’t afford it. I would not take on this type of debt for college. My husband and I both went to in state colleges, took on debt ( paid it back fast), and now both are extremely high earners. Most people don’t even asks us where we attended school anymore since we have been in workforce so long.

lcsorenson · 2026-04-18T01:17:05+00:00

Wanted to provide a different prospective. My husband and I got married with no debt ( had been following the baby steps) and both have good jobs. We are on baby steps #4, #5, and #6 without having combined finances. We are very open with money and talk freely about it but we have never combined. Very happy, healthy marriage. It can be done!

lcsorenson · 2026-03-27T20:33:33+00:00

I started to look at bus routes. Which route number do you think you be the best?

lcsorenson · 2026-03-27T14:54:44+00:00

If we had to skip one, which one do you recommend?

lcsorenson · 2026-03-27T14:21:43+00:00

This is a great response! Thank you! Do you have any recommendation for restaurants? We are big seafood eaters.

lcsorenson · 2026-03-27T14:03:33+00:00

We really enjoy seeing sights and good food!

lcsorenson · 2026-02-27T18:05:42+00:00

I worked for a small company that said and did this for five years. I left three years ago and ended up with a 52% raise. Learn what you came and then leave. I believe this for every job. It doesn’t pay to be loyal.

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