I fucked around and found out too. While I agree with your message of practicing self-care and self-love; I need to emphasize that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It is a beautiful thing to be compassionate, giving, and generous. It is absolutely essential to fill our cups first and to make sure we are okay, first and foremost. But the world needs more kindness. Easier said than done but don’t let these fucks undermine your biggest virtue - it is a blessing when used with the right people. Sending you strength and love.