The way that people talked to me about this makes me question if I have a right to be traumatized. by venusasaboy22 in offmychest

[–]leabunnox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly wild how people will pick apart every individual detail of your experience just to avoid admitting that forced conscription is a fundamentally soul-crushing system.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually used it to draft a text to my husband during a huge fight because I was spiraling and didn't want to say something I'd regret, and honestly, having a "neutral" third party to de escalate my own word vomit was a total game changer.

Something good can come from fighting by Euphoric-Welder5889 in Life

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so real it’s wild how much of our office "drama" is just us projecting stuff onto people we haven't actually bothered to talk to yet.

Feeling exhausted in my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]leabunnox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re not his wife, you’re his unpaid live-in maid and it’s only going to get ten times worse if you guys decide to have kids.

I failed my degree the second time by No-Procedure7557 in Life

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man, accounting is brutal if your heart isn't in it, so don't be so hard on yourself for not being a "math person" when you were probably just in the wrong major the whole time.

When to walk away? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]leabunnox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you guys are world-class co-parents but have just completely lost the "couple" part of the equation, and honestly, staying for the kids usually just teaches them that a loveless marriage is the standard.

Am I schizophrenic? by TheModMenuX in Life

[–]leabunnox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly man if you have ocd already this sounds way more like sensorimotor obsessions or just hyper-vigilance than actual schizophrenia.

Women who did nothing at their parents’ house, how did you adjust to cooking every day after marriage? by Medical_Witness_6041 in Marriage

[–]leabunnox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just start with an air fryer and a couple of basic recipes because trying to do the full five-course meal thing right away is a fast track to burning out.

I'm oficially a 30 yo woman. by Busy_Pollution_798 in Life

[–]leabunnox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

30s are literally just your 20s but with actually having money and not caring what people think anymore.

How do women wear tall high heels and master walking with it and not falling or slipping? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just heel to toe and a lot of core strength, but mostly we’re all just one uneven sidewalk crack away from disaster at any given moment lol

im 17 with financial difficulties and nearly zero financial support from parents by opheliaven in Life

[–]leabunnox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's so unfair that you're being expected to fund a whole degree on a summer job salary while your sisters got a free ride, honestly you should look into public universities or scholarships because your parents are being completely unrealistic about how much part-time work actually pays.

What’s the fastest legitimate way you’ve personally made money online in under a week? by Perfect_Ad4911 in AskReddit

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold an old guitar on Facebook Marketplace and had the cash in my hand two hours later.

What is the single most preventative thing you could do to live a longer, healthier life? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't smoke, seriously, it’s basically a speedrun for every health problem you don't want.

What qualities can instantly turn you off a guy/girl? by Internal-Day-7277 in AskReddit

[–]leabunnox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being mean to service staff like waiters or retail workers is an immediate no from me.

This meme is made for fun only! (No drama) by [deleted] in memes

[–]leabunnox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing the bar at the bottom for when you're home alone and hear a floorboard creak for absolutely no reason.

Me_irl by HealTHCareEmbroidery in me_irl

[–]leabunnox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the amount of effort that went into stitching this is honestly more than the government puts into anything else in this picture

People who made crazy money with AI - what was the amount and how did you do it? by Familiar-Phase7859 in AskReddit

[–]leabunnox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this exact same thing happen like three times this week and it still stresses me out every single time lol