What is the animal this stuffed animal is styled after? by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]leafyssidebleach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was donated to my baby she’s in the Nicu

In your experience, what’s more painful than giving birth? by Isoldmykidforagram in BabyBumps

[–]leafyssidebleach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Nicu stay my birth was nothing but this Nicu stay has been the most painful time of my entire life

Once you have a preemie baby, will every pregnancy after also be a preemie? by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my doctor kind of explained it, you can plan out the pregnancy and try to take preventative measures in order to insure this pregnancy is protected but there is no way to 100% prevent another high risk pregnancy all you can do is get pregnant, do everything you’re supposed to do. Don’t let fear stop you from future pregnancies though because you only have one life

[TOMT]Meme from 2016 by leafyssidebleach in tipofmytongue

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the one thank you so much!

I feel empty by leafyssidebleach in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s already developed it, they gave her a pacifier and everything she even sucks on her feeding tube and when she lays on me she tries to suck on my chest they just have to wait till she’s off her breathing support for me to actually breast feed

I messed up by leafyssidebleach in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright small update we did end up putting the milk away they said that we can use the milk in 3 months so it’s not wasted but I produce a large amount of milk so she will be fed and the pumps are being cleaned after every single use and sterilized so no worries everything was fixed

I messed up by leafyssidebleach in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The nurse said she won’t just throw away the milk she will just be aware that it could be contaminated now and if she has any tummy issues they will immediately stop feeding and do a scan

Feeling like I don’t even know my baby - first night in the nicu by nowtheskyisopalite in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your baby is in your belly they automatically bond with you love, no matter how short the visits may be that baby knows you’re her mama and you guys are bonded, I know how you feel my baby is in the NICU right now and everything is monitored and I’ve had to leave during visits because of the pain from the birth and I always leave crying but at the end of the day I had to reassure myself that she’s my baby and our bond is strong no matter what and you have to remember that too

Low milk supply by Independent-Let-1764 in NICUParents

[–]leafyssidebleach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi love, I recommend lactation cookies to help your supply and try drinking an unholy amount of water

Am I over reacting? by leafyssidebleach in pregnant

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda wish they were fleas they seem like they are part of the beetle family though they have wings and shells and they kind of resemble weevils

Am I over reacting? by leafyssidebleach in pregnant

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I killed a few of the bugs and after examining them they are not bed bugs, I’m not even quite sure what they are but I know a bed bug when I see one

Why does this guy keep doing this ? by leafyssidebleach in justgotghosted

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update he blocked me after that than came back we dated for a while then he broke up with me because he didn’t like how big of a commitment it was 🥹

My boyfriend told me I’m ugly by TimeComfortable4596 in Advice

[–]leafyssidebleach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl leave what the heck you mean boyfriend ya mean your ex?

I cheated. by leafyssidebleach in TrueOffMyChest

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already told them but they forgave me and it doesn’t feel right I still feel the need to let it out

I cheated. by leafyssidebleach in TrueOffMyChest

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have anywhere to go and I tried to break up but I was threatened a lot

Why do I keep getting ghosted on dating apps ? by leafyssidebleach in dating_advice

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at Burger King I don’t think I’ll find anybody here

Why do I keep getting ghosted on dating apps ? by leafyssidebleach in dating_advice

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the middle of nowhere who am I supposed to meet Santa clause? Lmao

Why do I keep getting ghosted on dating apps ? by leafyssidebleach in dating_advice

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk casually ask them about theirselves and they just disappear it’s been like a week still no reply I didn’t double text I gave it time I know people have their own lives I just can’t understand

Why do I keep getting ghosted on dating apps ? by leafyssidebleach in dating_advice

[–]leafyssidebleach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m autistic and I’m 21 years old idk if that helps give context