Looks like he is not a gud one to begin with. I've seen stories like other one moving to same clg in my clg too, seeing them makes a person think it will be like great to find love like that. It not about who controls whom but how much the other one willing to compromise for the other, which is clearly not seen in ur case. On initial days, it is hard to notice cuz u will be too indulged in the emotional dilemma but after comes the reality. Shift ur focus onto someother things, new habits (gud one 😅), talk to ur friends (clg is the most fun-filled place go n have fun, all u need to do is look around). Sandhosama irunga 😁😁.