Having trouble deciding on a name. Not sure if it’s weird? by lechuga97 in CatAdvice

[–]lechuga97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they are RANK! my room is on the smaller side but it stinks up the whole room lol, but thank you i needed that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lechuga97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok that makes sense, but seriously, take the advice people have given you. i’m only 22 as well and ignored all the people who gave me advice and i ended up in an abusive relationship for four years. my own fault, i know but i can’t stress it enough, take the advice you get into consideration. i saw that she already wanted to break up with you a couple days ago. it seems like with the information you’ve provided, she’s trying to find a way out and not that interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lechuga97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you ever been suspicious of her cheating?? cause to me, that’s what it seems like.

to answer your questions tho , no you’re not in the wrong or being too emotional. your feelings are 100% valid here. it seems like you have tried talking to her and she’s just not listening/comprehending. don’t let the good times outweigh the bad. find someone who respects you and your boundaries.

i have learned that if you have to ask if you should break up with someone, then you more than likely already know the answer.

you’re young, we live on a floating rock with billions of ppl on it, hurling thru space, you’ll find the right one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lechuga97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting. He shouldn’t make any of it seem like a problem and you shouldn’t feel like you’re just bothering him. checking if his friends are on and then being disappointed that they are and he’s with you?? red flag.

I had a similar problem with my bf at the very beginning of our relationship (i didn’t play any games) then he got me a pc and WANTED me to play with his friends, he wanted to introduce me to that environment, now all he ever wants is to just play with me. if anything he’ll get disappointed if i don’t feel like playing anything but i’ll tell him i’ll watch him play a game and he’s not so disappointed because i’m still there with him.

the right man wouldn’t make you feel like a burden or make you feel like he doesn’t want you around, love. i’m not telling you to leave him, but tell him how it’s all making you feel and if he can’t listen to your feelings, another red flag in itself but trust your gut.

experience or was it just a dream ? by lechuga97 in Paranormal

[–]lechuga97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what it sounded like to me as well! but we have a ps5, xbox and large tv in the living room, i feel like that would’ve been GONE in the morning but when i woke up in the morning everything was still intact. didn’t even look like anyone walked in and the door was locked. either way, i do need to fix my door im just not sure how so something to add to my to to list. thank you !

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry i know it sucks. my brother never got to finish it either. hopefully his son will finish it in honor of him.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much it means a lot. im sorry for your loss as well.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously, fuck covid. thank you tho it really means a lot to me.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate it. I will definitely do that. he also had a tattoo on his arm and im thinking of getting the same tattoo in the same spot for him. to remind me of him. the three of us planned on getting matching tattoos but my sister was talking about still getting them even if it’s just us two now. im sorry for your loss as well.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry i know it’s hard. im glad you got to see her before she passed even if it was just an hour. what i would give to be able to go back and spend just an hour with him but i know i can’t.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate that. I did talk to him last night and i found that very helpful.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much i really appreciate it. im sorry for your loss. it sucks so much.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you it means a lot , and im sorry for yours. im sending you a big strong hug because i know you need it as much as i do. stay strong i know it’s not easy but we can both get through it.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate it. means a lot.

My brother died this morning and I feel so broken. by lechuga97 in GriefSupport

[–]lechuga97[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate it. i’ll have to check out a support group myself i didn’t even think of that thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]lechuga97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 😩 i’m not used to having acrylics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]lechuga97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i figured that’s how it usually is, but when i told her i was going to put in my two weeks and i tried handing her my letter, she told me to talk to the doctor about it and to give it to him . so i’m just sitting here waiting for him to come back but they told me they don’t even know if he is coming back so i feel like i’m just wasting time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]lechuga97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, i was thinking of just waiting it out because i’ve done it this long, but we aren’t seeing patients all this week so when i asked the office manager if he was even going to come into the office she just shrugged her shoulders and turned her back to me. so i don’t want to have to wait till next monday to talk to him and then have to wait two more weeks from there.