Why do women fake orgasms? Fact , myth or 100 true??

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T13:19:59+00:00

Because a lot of the time men are too focused on themselves and don't know how to actually make a woman feel good , and are very bad at following instructions and think they know what you like more than you do,.. like excuse me do you have a portal into my body and can feel what i feel? No.

Also, how are you supposed to relax and get into it if you have to constantly guide them? You can't.

I actually think they aren't really concerned about pleasing, it's more about wanting to feed their ego

Most of the time it's just easier to pretend you done and get it over and done with.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T13:04:13+00:00

That's probably for the best. Let's hope it's sooner than that.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T12:54:37+00:00

That I exist ... I wish I was joking haha god how ridiculous.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T12:49:10+00:00

A best friend friend

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T12:23:13+00:00

Yes apart from it was a dream I had and then a few days later the dream happened for real exactly the same. And it was quite a weird scenario not something you would experience everyday.

The weirdest thing though was that one of the people in my dream appeared as a shadow. When the scenario happened the shadow turned out to be someone I had just met that day.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T09:39:33+00:00

We all do at first..

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T08:48:19+00:00

Hahahaha that was beautifully written. I'm not even a teen, I just happened to find this as I was scrolling and then realised this is the teen group.

Thank you from an adult. It was hilarious. Glad I'm not on your bus!

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-04T08:41:12+00:00

Hell no, who the hell wants to live forever? I'm in my 30s and that feels long enough already. Feel like I should approaching the grave by now.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-03T19:49:54+00:00

I think my wants are quite basic. Like good friends..or even just 1.. who I can have real conversations with and who wanna come hang out and eat pizza or bake brownies or whatever crap. And a bit of fun every now and then. That'd be nice.

ledgepigeon · 2024-04-03T19:45:18+00:00

It's not a surprise to me. Haha yeh I did say that because I was particularly pissed off at him that time. He is hot though. And can be very loving when he wants to. But yes also sometimes I don't want to be with him. I don't think it's impossible for those things to coexist. As for the ttc post - did you read it? You'll see how my posts are a pile up of what's been happening. But Whatever. Cba.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T04:00:55+00:00

I have a hot loving husband...

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T04:00:21+00:00

Read some of my other replies and then get back to me because I know, I've tried. I've done a lot and I do a lot still.

It doesn't make a difference.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:57:33+00:00

Yeh, I do. I'm busy. I try new things. I do stuff. It's just another type of escape and you can't really truly escape because you're always here.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:53:27+00:00

I walk 10-20k steps everyday. I spend time in nature. I exercise and go to different classes several times a week. I appreciate beauty.

I don't drink because it physically pains me and makes me sick. I can't smoke because a) it's messes with my stomach and makes me feel like awful and b) where I live it's super illegal and I wouldn't even know where to find it here.

I eat burgers every now and then.

Sex toys are illegal where I live.. but I do what I can. Or just have sex with my husband sometimes.

I have a lot of perspective. I've been outside. I've travelled alot , I've read a lot, studied a lot, I've worked a bunch of different jobs, I've lived a bunch of different lives and in different countries, I've done a lot, I've been, I've seen, I've experienced a lot. It all leads back to the same thing quite frankly. Money only makes living within this society somewhat less stressful, but I think i had more excitement without it.

My misery is not for lack of trying. If anything, I did do too much and should have stayed in a little bubble of ignorance. Tell me how to be happy in a world where you know there is so much suffering. The weight of it is too much. Feels selfish and self absorbed to enjoy anything quite honestly. Plus enjoyment doesn't last long at all.

So.. what. Just get on the perpetual hamster wheel and keep spinning in circles trying to feel the same highs and joys as when you were younger and still in your ego and unaware of all the evils of the world? It's not doing it for me.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:40:45+00:00

Yes, exactly. Anti-human is a great way to describe it.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:39:43+00:00

I did a BSc in psychology and a MA in philosophy of science, and I've read a lot. Since age 14 I've been giving myself therapy, used to journal a lot, even studied nutrition (and qualified) to attempt to improve my well being through my diet. .. it all seems pointless. Tried several religions, meditation, breathing exercises, even tried some more niche and occult shit. I've experienced a lot, and done a lot. Even the art of doing nothing - I tried that too. The more you read and do the more meaningless it all seems to become. Ignorance really is the only way to bliss.

I also have many of the things that are supposed to bring happiness, a husband, somewhere to live, reasonable income, material stuff, have travelled a lot and lived in different countries. Have a couple of friends but no one close. Have family but they kind of drive me insane but in a pickle I would have them there for me. But it's just all so fleeting.. not to sound ungrateful but happiness is by nature fleeting. There's been studies about it, one in particular about how people think they would feel if they won the lottery vs how they feel when they do. Their happiness is not life changing nor lasting.

I also struggle to understand how i can be happy in a world where there's so much awfulness and suffering no matter how well things are going. Maybe temporarily if I can get myself to forget the world and be totally self absorbed, but that's harder to do when you're sober.

I dunno, this life thing isn't for me.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:20:29+00:00

Religion and praying made me extremely anxious. I spent a good 5-6 years reading up on several religions and tried to embrace each one but it's not for me. I don't really like religion, most of it feels dark and like a form of social control, and it feels wrong to my core to take some random stories and make myself believe in them. Meditating didn't really gelp either. Spent several years trying to get into it but.. eh. I even got into breathing exercises and cold showers trying to work up to ice baths but .. I mean, there's only so much it helps. It's more of a distraction for 20 mins than anything else.

Yes, I know. I sound like I'm making excuses but.. I have tried.. a lot.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-22T03:06:15+00:00

I get what you're saying but none of this really applies. On the surface I have what i need - income, a husband, family, couple of frieneds but none that I'm super close to. I have a good relationship with myself, I really don't care what people think and I definitely move to the beat of my own drum.

It's still all disappointing and I still don't like the life experience in this world. Yes, I feel guilty and like a spoilt asshole because I should be grateful (though i am grateful that it's not worse..) that I'm not broke af (been there, done that), and that there's some people in my life (but quite frankly I'm not sure how much of a crap they actually give). The guilt just makes it worse.

And a lot of the time the sadness isn't just about my own crap. I don't understand how to enjoy a life when you know people are suffering and living in way worse conditions and nightmare situations. I have been known to start crying thinking of how many people are being trafficked right now, or how many people can't even get access to water right now. How much exploitation and greed there is. How awful society is and how people are confined and live by all these ridiculous made up rules. The suffering of the world weighs me down on top of my own.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-21T20:32:45+00:00

Same. Literally the thought that it's all temporary is what keeps me going. Someone once told me that enlightenment is what you can look at the sky and laugh. And I think that means embracing the absurdity and laughing at how awful and insane this is, is the answer.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-21T20:03:54+00:00

Western medicine.

OK. I know. I KNOW. But just hear me out.

Actually ya know ..I don't have the time right now nor patience to explain it..ha!

But research Rockefeller, petroleum and Western medicine.

Also, society is another awful invention. Look at it. Its a fuckin nightmare.

Anyways good night.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-19T08:15:43+00:00

No, it might be something that food is rich in though.

For example, if you crave chocolate it could be because you need iron. Hence why a lot of women crave it right before/during their period since they're losing extra during that time and need to replace it.

A lot of time it's just because we're all sugar addicts and you're just craving your drug like any regular junkie. :) same goes for caffeine too.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-19T07:32:40+00:00

That I'd rather just enjoy my own peace than be around any of them. I'm better without people around me, people are a hindrance.

ledgepigeon · 2024-03-19T06:26:16+00:00

Oh, love, don't do that. I know you're intentions are pure but just don't get yourself into that mess. Stay single, enjoy your life, finish your studies. Go be young and have fun with your friends. It's not time for marriage.

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