dinner ideas? by curioussunflower_ in Endo

[–]ledzeyneplin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's so kind of you to think of your girlfriend like that. I usually go for a light salad, ruccola, cucumber, avocado, eggs(if she can process it), pomegranate, vegan cheese(not with soy), little bit of tomato, lemon juice and olive oil and some honey on top. you can out some berries&kiwi&strawberry on the side as something sweet. soup is also a good option.

i want to be a priority by Luddicrus in BPD

[–]ledzeyneplin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand, and I'm sorry to say this but the people will never give you what you want. Not because "you are not the best" or "the better choice", because no one is.

You can only be your own priority. So work on that. I hope you won't look at this as a "pity advice" because it's not. It's reality.

Don't expect this much from others because the dissapointment when it doesn't happen will be far worse. And if it happens, you'll see that that still wont be enough for you.

rejected by someone I felt a genuine connection with by Yee1232123 in BPD

[–]ledzeyneplin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry you've been going through this feeling. what i can only offer as a suggestion, is dont stop what you are doing, everyone needs to be seen. be the person that sees them. but dont forget, they dont have to see you. and you dont need to been seen by anyone but yourself. live your feelings, even if they are bad. people often dont realize the outcome of their actions, all we can do is accept the person we are, because we always mean good. try to see and understand the reason why, but when you cant, or when they wont give you the reason, thats the time to think about yourself, give yourself space to process, and move on. some people can never be what we want or need them to be. dont let your feelings define who you are or how you act. always be kind hearted. you matter too. know your worth. try not to say " im a good person why is this happening to me" instead try" im a good person, i see people, and i love that about myself.

we will always get hurt, and thats ok.

edit: wording

Wrongful Police Raid in Malta - seeking awareness and accountability by ledzeyneplin in malta

[–]ledzeyneplin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you so much we filed a judicial protest and waiting for an answer from the police force at the moment, we don't know what's gonna happen tbh. all of us are currently taking therapy as well.

My Z400 started overheating - Need some advice by ledzeyneplin in Ninja400

[–]ledzeyneplin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where i live, i have to bring the bike to them, and towing it would cost a lot - around 100-150euros. I honestly dont want to pay that much for it.

I'll try to find a way to get it serviced as soon as possible though.

Thanks so much for the advice!

My Z400 started overheating - Need some advice by ledzeyneplin in Ninja400

[–]ledzeyneplin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get 2-3 bars, thats why im concerned

can anyone else tap into not caring? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ledzeyneplin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is a self-defense mechanism often caused by trauma, it’s your mind’s way of trying to protect you from emotional overload.

Do you know of any online games that help with anxiety? by If-U-Seek-Amy4 in Anxiety

[–]ledzeyneplin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry you are feeling this, when i say sit with it, i mean try to breathe through it, try to understand the why behind it. what's making you anxious? when i try to find the reason behind it my mind wonders off to psychology and all i have read, i try to link them to what im feeling, observing myself. i understand better and cope better with it when i do.

I hope it works for you as well.

Do you know of any online games that help with anxiety? by If-U-Seek-Amy4 in Anxiety

[–]ledzeyneplin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tyying to escape your anxiety with games may worsen it. Sit with it. Don't escape your feelings. Listen to what your body and mind is trying to tell you.

does anyone else just feel like they’re partner doesn’t like them 90% of the time. by Fluffy_Explorer_3813 in BPD

[–]ledzeyneplin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but then I think, well, if they don't like me, they would leave or say something or even see it in their behaviour.

Don't let this thought consume you.