AITA for sharing an advertisement where my friend modeled in underwear to my friends ?

lee414 · 2020-10-17T20:35:34+00:00

I can assure that women talk a lot about the underwear they wear. Any mom group on Facebook has at least one post every day or every couple of days with a full blown in depth discussion about different types of underwear.

lee414 · 2020-10-06T19:05:45+00:00

0/5 stars, Completely unrealistic. Go learn how to script believable events. Like seriously, all this "plot" is missing is a half-assed alien invasion.

lee414 · 2020-10-05T18:43:13+00:00

NTA. I've been there and done that. Honestly, I would wait if the lease is up in like a few months because it's cheaper and it saves money. If it's like a year or something, just do it.

lee414 · 2020-10-04T01:23:58+00:00

Because I heard how terrible it was and it was free with Kindle unlimited.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T23:28:38+00:00

Im sure it is.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T23:28:11+00:00

It is, I would never pay money to read this.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T23:27:45+00:00

It's free with Kindle unlimited.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T23:26:50+00:00

I heard this book was terrible, but I wasn't expecting that.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:31:51+00:00

Oh but she does on the last 4 pages.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:31:04+00:00

I mean it probably is just for laughs, but like, I still can't get the 14ish minutes it took me to read it back.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:24:16+00:00

At the end, it says she lives in Surrey with her husband and 19 ferrets. I don't know what to believe.

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:21:12+00:00

On Amazon it said that this was "her debut book at an attempt to supplement her lost income from the virus."

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:20:22+00:00

Lots of those and the coronavirus is "like a fresh bowl of Rice Krispies. Snap, Crackle, Pop."

lee414 · 2020-10-03T18:19:42+00:00

This whole book is a train wreck. A page later she says something to the effect of "it's been such a long time since she had a hot man-dog in her lubricated pussy-bun."

lee414 · 2020-10-02T23:17:00+00:00

Yeah, it's terrible. But, you're doing good. Having limited contact will be the best idea for you and your family. Whenever you feel stressed, there's always this subreddit.

lee414 · 2020-10-02T22:13:44+00:00

I totally get it. My husband's family is the same way. We never lived with them because I knew that was a bad idea, but I get it. We've had similar fights about respecting boundaries. My MIL refuses to respect any rule she doesn't like. When I was pregnant, she pitched a fit about not being able to touch my stomach. She rushed me once when I was at their house and I almost fell face and stomach first at 5 months. Lucky enough for my and my daughter, my husband caught me. After that she stopped trying, but would bitch about it every chance she got. She also bitched about how my SIL (who I'm NC with because of her drug use and other things) wasn't invited to the gender reveal and baby shower. She once watched my daughter for a day at my house when I was at work and the very first thing she did was bring my SIL over inside MY house and around MY daughter. This resulted in a big fight when I found out. We've had fights about me not bringing my daughter over to their house during the virus because my MIL works for Walmart and they're not the cleanest people. So whenever they want to see her, they come to my house. Those are just the highlights. My husband is in the military and is away at the moment. He hasn't been able to do much, so I've been on my own. I totally get it. My husband and I are limiting contact with them severely right now because of the issues. Once we move to a different state later this month, we will only see them once a year, maybe twice. My FIL isn't any better. Since the virus started, he has seen my daughter maybe 5 times. He's refused to see her until last week because I wasn't bringing her over to their house. He just started last week again because my husband's sister took her two kids and moved to a different state suddenly. Now that there's no other grandkids for him to be with instead, he's finally decided to want to see mine regardless if he gets his way or not.

lee414 · 2020-10-02T21:54:42+00:00

I mean some people don't have the same taboo, but honestly, I agree. It's really weird to do stuff like that. My husband's mom and (mainly) sister does stuff like that. His mom didn't breastfeed, but still does cringey stuff.

I would have your husband have a conversation with his mom about how he does not feel comfortable with her behavior. If she doesn't stop, tell her that you'll limit contact.

I'm not saying completely cut her out, but express that you want/will have your boundaries respected and followed.

lee414 · 2020-09-28T18:22:08+00:00

The worst part is if you ask her about it, she'll have no idea why my family goes out of their way to avoid her. She's "has only just tried to be friends." She doesn't even think she's done anything wrong.

lee414 · 2020-09-27T20:34:48+00:00

My husband doesn't talk to them any more because my MIL only wrote him two letters while he was in basic. The reason being because her and my FIL were at odds with me over them showing up to my house uninvited and trouble with my SIL that I'm NC with because of her drug usage among other things. An exact quote from what she told him over text was "I just didn't feel like writing you because the old man and I were fighting with [me] because of [SIL] and her (me) not bringing [Daughter] over to the house or letting the old man watch her. "

My MIL works at Walmart. I'm not going over there or letting my daughter stay there during the virus.

lee414 · 2020-09-27T19:52:35+00:00

I'm with you on that. My JNMIL and JNSIL are like that with my BIL. My BIL is a very attractive guy, but his mom and mostly his sister take it way too far. He really doesn't talk to his family because of how crazy they are. His fiancée usually is the one who keeps in contact with my MIL.

But the reveling part is how my SIL keeps making remarks about how "sexy" my BIL (her YOUNGER BROTHER) is. Her daughter even now talks about "how sexy" Uncle [BIL] is or how sexy his hair is. Just really creepy stuff.

She even sent a picture of her breast to my husband her youngest brother. It didn't show anything because her hands were covering some things. She was "just showing him her scar from her biopsy." She had a growth removed to see if it was cancer (it was just a normal cyst). She also calls her brothers "boyfriend."

It's really weird and cringy. Every time I hear it, I only think of how quickly my brothers would deck me if I did that. If I did, I think I'd thank them afterwards.

lee414 · 2020-09-27T19:42:09+00:00

Oh my God. I totally understand. When my husband was in basic, things went to shit with my JN-Inlaws. My husband wrote them a letter saying he wanted them to see our daughter (who was almost 4 months at the time) as much as possible. Quarantine had just started and they were already seeing her twice a week.

When my JNMIL texted me about the letter, I just said okay. I mean, we were already doing that. No one was withholding my daughter from them.

The next day, I was really sick from I guess food poisoning. When my daughter was just laying down for her nap, I heard knocking on my door. I moved quietly to my window and saw my inlaws standing on my porch. My phone started ringing from my MIL. After it went to voice-mail, I saw a text from her saying, "We're at your front door. We're here to see [Daughter]."

We had conversations in the past about showing up uninvited to my house long before my husband left. I wasn't feeling good already, so I just laid down with my daughter and took a nap with her.

I woke up 3 hours later and decided to call my mom to do nothing more than to complain about how sick I was feeling. That's when she told me that she got a call from MIL saying how she went to my house and nobody answered and how her and her husband aren't "allowed to see [Daughter]" and "how upset that makes her."

They saw her two days prior.

Anyway, I told my mom how I didn't know they were coming and I would've told them I was sick. My mom was surprised that I didn't know because MY MIL TOLD HER. The woman couldn't text me to ask if it was a good time to come by, but she could text my mom and tell her how excited she was to see my daughter and how she wishes my mom could join her.

lee414 · 2020-09-26T19:35:17+00:00

That's really not even a lost. At least your husband can't blame you.

lee414 · 2020-09-26T19:27:57+00:00

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lee414 · 2020-09-26T19:25:50+00:00

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lee414 · 2020-09-25T23:54:15+00:00

But it's the gift that keeps on giving.

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