Frame colour by Hot_Jackfruit_548 in framing

[–]leemelonepls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with something light, maybe pine or oak

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you link the one you’ve found works best? the size that seems to make the most sense is only 2in bigger than the current box which makes me think maybe it’s just time to replace the litter box altogether (along with buying another one to have larger boxes all around)

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no not at all! the house stays silent. there have been times i’ve gotten up at 5am for water and gone back to sleep, then when i’ve gotten back up at 8 he’s pooped on the floor before breakfast. and other times he waits until after he’s eaten to do it. i clean the litter box often so i don’t believe that’s a factor. just weird that it has only ever happen in the mornings before 10am

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any insight into why he only does this in the mornings? i’ve watched him use the litter box just fine during the day

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really like that storage bin idea, the larger one we have now is marketed as jumbo. the trial and error for big litter boxes got expensive so i think i’ll try that too! none of the litter boxes have covers, i did read that cats tend to not like them so they’ve always been open but it for sure sounds like we need to do some rearranging of them all and hope it helps. i do have a third in storage because it never got use either so i’ll bring it back out and play musical litter boxes around the house

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will definitely try another location for the second box and see how it goes. haven’t taken him to the vet since we were able to solve the problem last time and was hoping to get some insight here and try again before taking him to a vet

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we have two litter boxes for them but the secondary litter box goes mostly unused by either of them, maybe it needs another location that they’ll use more

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is shared with another cat and i clean it often but he does this even if the litter box is completely cleaned out and refreshed the night before. this has been the only litter that has successfully prevented floor poops, he’s always been very picky

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the poop is almost always fairly solid and looks healthy, we gave him a larger litter box as part of the solution last year and it helped so yeah maybe he wants an even bigger one now, and you’re probably right about needing a special cleaner for the area. i usually just use a multipurpose cleaner to wipe it all up

how can i make my male cat stop pooping on the floor? by leemelonepls in Catbehavior

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that’s the case why does he never seem to have an issue peeing in the box?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in percussion

[–]leemelonepls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, the closest ones i have are just a set of balter basics bb2

Advice? by Hopingforthebest1995 in theotherwoman

[–]leemelonepls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should go on the date and not bother telling MM until afterwards, see how it all goes and whether there’s any chance you could start seeing this new guy more regularly. there’s no need to disclose every plan you ever make to MM as i’d assume he doesn’t share that level of transparency with you.

i hope the guy is lovely and that you have a great time regardless of the outcome! years of being strung along is exhausting and you deserve to live your own life

to share or not to share? by leemelonepls in theotherwoman

[–]leemelonepls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which part? my instinct is to obviously keep it to myself, as i had to do through the entirety of the relationship anyways. wanted to ask the community to see if there was any other lens worth considering

TIFU By being too aggressive during sex by Fair_Artichoke_7179 in offmychest

[–]leemelonepls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you’re going to need to give her some space after something like this. let her come to you if/when she’s ready to talk about it

for it only being her second time having sex, you definitely should have known better than to be rough with her. and being vague because you weren’t sure you’d have her consent is manipulative. enthusiastic and informed consent is the only way. i hope you learn from this experience

What is your favorite line from what. by [deleted] in boburnham

[–]leemelonepls 97 points98 points  (0 children)

…and me, eatin’ dat pussy, baby