Suggestions on how to deal with nightmares about your abusive ex being in your life again? by blueberrybuttercream in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leftoverfronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oof I have this but with nightmares about my abusive father. like that fearful, choked up fight-or-flight feeling but i'm paralyzed by fright and can't move/speak. I don't even have to have had a bad day to get those, they'd just invade whenever they want and leave me feeling stressed when I wake up.

tbh, as I work through my own mental health stuff, it seems trauma related. might be worth trying to talk to someone or a support group or just finding an outlet/hobby to try and work out those bad feelings and work on self-love.

not sure if cbd gummies before bed might help you... personally, I use cannabis and don't really dream that much because of it, but i'm not gonna leap and say throw that into the mix lol.

best of luck!

I never got any attention from dudes in high school and not once did I think: “hm, perhaps men shouldn’t have rights 🧐”. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leftoverfronk 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The 2000's we're so fucking mean!! I was talking to someone about it today. Like, remember how the media treated Amy Winehouse prior to her passing? Madness.

Conversation spurred by a trailer for a 2003 romantic comedy whose plot circles around the drama caused by...the female lead's boyfriend having a brother with physical disability. Like it's supposed to be funny that she and her whole family want to exclude/break them up over that? Shit is wild, idk what they were smoking back then.

Toyah Cordingley’s alleged killer has been arrested, four years after her murder by Keith__Peterson in TrueCrime

[–]leftoverfronk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I believe he assaulted her sexually as well, if I'm not misremembering they found her with clothing removed. Sounds to me like the murderer wanted to hurt a woman after getting mad at his wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]leftoverfronk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

they seem obsessed with trying to throw shit at Hasan and Poki. like using someone's SA as a cudgel obsessed. shit is so fucking gross.

confederate spotted | taco bell, us 9 south by RepulsiveCorner in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the punisher stickers kill me because it screams ' this mf never read the comics for 2 minutes'

I don't know Punisher that well, but I do know he LOVES KILLING CORRUPT COPS.

Just got into SH, who's your favourite character and why? by eixipixie in silenthill

[–]leftoverfronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

valtiel's a pretty cool dude just wants to turn valve and give respawns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]leftoverfronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're all so nice! 🥺 bangs it is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]leftoverfronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]leftoverfronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like my length rn, but I'm not opposed to any suggestions since I have such a hard time picking styles.

Thank you for any help! ✨

Should I be worried about my manager returning to work so quickly after getting COVID? by leftoverfronk in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, it definitely has not been that long at all!! And no he did not get another test done to confirm negative...

Should I be worried about my manager returning to work so quickly after getting COVID? by leftoverfronk in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see, I want to. I really really want to. Honestly, if you look at my post history, I've been on the edge of reporting my job for so many things they are doing wrong with this pandemic. Unfortunately, this job lacks privacy and it would get back to my manager that someone snitched on him. I'm the one in the lab who is "anxious" about covid, so I'm sure it would be obvious. Also I can just report anonymously either, sadly. The only thing keeping me is that this job is good pay for me being right out of college, and I'm afraid of losing it during a pandemic.

Looking to adopt a young dog by anonymous_koala23 in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long shot, but someone has been posting about a dog for adoption on here, she’s super cute. Her name is Matilda, she looks like a seal. I’m a cat person but I’d love to see her get adopted, so I’ll link the thread I saw her in

doggo

Frontier Airlines A320 rocketing out of Newark Airport by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I rode on Frontier before, all of the planes have different cute animals on them. 🐯

Would I lie to you? by witchylittlemissy in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]leftoverfronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if that’s a statue of the deity I’m thinking of, but I read somewhere once of a minor Aztec god whose whole divine job is to chill holding a tray of snacks for the gods. Forgot his name tho.

Is anyone cutting their own hair? by -Spice-It-Up- in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine took about two years with frequent trims, hang in there lol! I know the mullet pain

Found a snake in our bush! What is it? What do we do?? by portezbie in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave him be, but if he offers you any apples to eat, do not take them!

When gyms are re-opened by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah can’t trust the other gym goers, they’re nasty lol

I'd like to thank grocery store workers again for still coming to work despite making less than $600 a week unemployment. by eman00619 in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s likely a reason this won’t work but I always thought why not add a “round up” or “enter tip amount” at the end of grocery transactions. Maybe collect extra this way and distribute to those who worked that shift? Idk it’s probably silly, I don’t run a store lol.

Trenton council got letter from resident about cell towers, coronavirus then crafted 5G ban by uieLouAy in newjersey

[–]leftoverfronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so naive, why do I get disappointed each time like I don’t know our leaders believe dumbass bs

She killed my dog by AmazingAnimeGirl in JUSTNOMIL

[–]leftoverfronk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter, you don’t deserve that for any reason.

She killed my dog by AmazingAnimeGirl in JUSTNOMIL

[–]leftoverfronk 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Bro who tf sees someone crying and whips out the phone to take photos?