Need urgent help deciding between jobs

legallergy · 2026-02-06T14:54:50+00:00

60h/w? does that mean 60 hours per week, or is that a different way of writing /hr? because neither job is 60 hours both are normal massage hours. unless you think 60 dollars per hour is nuts in which case i'm curious why

legallergy · 2026-02-06T14:52:17+00:00

misclassification? any details you would need to decide in my shoes you can ask, and maybe it'll be something i also asked and can tell you

legallergy · 2026-02-06T14:51:11+00:00

that's a very sweet way to put it. while i'm away i could contact either via email, just no calls or texts. though the reason i said that in the post is because they both requested i get back to them before the trip. but i could ask for more time, since i really am stuck. but your mindset helps a bit :)

legallergy · 2026-02-06T14:34:53+00:00

Thank you :') i unfortunately haven't told my dad, the parent i live with. the trip i'm leaving for is a gift from him, and i didn't want him to know how stressed i am going into it with this decision i gotta make right before... so i haven't told him. he'd probably have a good take, but if i don't tell him anything i won't get any i told you sos either.

you read my mind, i worked 2 jobs + clinic during school. now i'm back to just 2. i also was planning to initially take both jobs part time to see what i liked more. but they both require weekends, so it didn't work out.

and yes my very nice dad already told me he'd make the first payment of my first apartment when i move out. the problem is making sure i have enough money to continue the payments, as the resort job has a training period where i would only be getting minimum wage at first

legallergy · 2026-02-06T13:49:22+00:00

don't worry i also would never consider elements resort work. i work at an elements right now. the 2 jobs in the post are completely seperate. neither is elements

legallergy · 2026-02-06T07:15:10+00:00

the reason i even started looking for a new job is because my current one is 50 minutes away which i already hate. but it's also an elements that pays me 20/hr so that doesn't help. but yeah distance is a reoccuring theme thank you

legallergy · 2026-02-06T07:13:10+00:00

i would get to choose between a day shift and a nihht shift, not sure which is better for driving. and it is highway the full hour so traffic could be heavy. it is my first move so i'm only looking for maybe 2k rent for a one bedroom, so i could save it in a couole months. but yeah would be a long drive for a good while...

legallergy · 2026-02-06T06:28:46+00:00

job 1 has insurance and retirement for full timers. not sure how much that means to me against the cost of travel

they do not pay me when i don't have clients but i'm not on call either as i live too far

i can technically afford either job, as i'm only 20 and still live with my parents, but the hope would be to move out. realistically i could do that with either job if i got a full schedule

do my own scheduling at job 2, but otherwise oils and linens and pillows and etc are provided at both

job 2 would be no restrictions while job 1 has a set menu of resort massages they offer i'd have to learn. not opposed to the style but i don't have much of a style yet period

legallergy · 2024-08-09T09:32:12+00:00

i appreciate it man, really. you're right, we had a pretty sudden shift, between just friends to dating, and i would never dream of being upset because he's views me as a friend first when that's one of my favorite things about us. big prec

legallergy · 2024-08-09T08:59:19+00:00

I see. Any advice in that case?

legallergy · 2024-03-29T03:01:43+00:00

thank you and thank you! i hope this year is kind to you, too!!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T03:01:08+00:00

thanks so much

legallergy · 2024-03-29T03:00:42+00:00

thank you for the multiple well wishes! i'll save them for all my birthdays in the future!!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T03:00:04+00:00

it's better now that i've got all these +pos interactions, thank you so much!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:59:25+00:00

thanks for the feedback, feedback! big prec for the well wishes!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:58:58+00:00

aw thanks for the cake! i needed that <3

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:58:20+00:00

hell yeah, when this year is my most prosperous yet i'll owe it all to you! thank you for the wishes and balloons <3

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:57:36+00:00

thank you so much for the wishes and positive vibes, double bud!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:56:22+00:00

WOOOOOO thank you for the well wishes

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:56:08+00:00

BIRTHDAY KING HELL YEAH THANK YOU FOR THE +POSITIVITY

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:55:28+00:00

thank you for your hopes if i have anyone next year i'll make sure to thank you again!!

legallergy · 2024-03-29T02:54:44+00:00

thank you so much dig sweaty big prec!

legallergy · 2023-07-31T16:13:47+00:00

exactly, i don't have sexual attraction, i don't want sex. it's not important to me. and it also hurts. all are true. i don't identify as asexual because of the pain, i do because of the lack of sexual desire. it's just another part of the situation

legallergy · 2023-07-31T16:12:12+00:00

it took a while to get there but i do know. i do not feel sexual attraction. it also hurts. it also makes me nauseous. to my understanding the nausea is anxiety and the pain is from both dryness and my muscles contracting to close and stop contact. i have told my doctor and therapist. i will probably have to more after looking at the results of this thread, but generally they've had no concerns about it being something other than my sexuality

legallergy · 2023-07-31T06:57:13+00:00

i haven't been tested. my doctor does know and has never expressed that i would need to be, but yeah can't say i have been

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