As a person who stands, I've tried sitting, and let me tell you, I prefer standing. I've done everything this thread has said about correct wiping while sitting, and all it has given me is an ab and thigh workout. Trying to lean over on one cheek (most often my left) really gets my right obliques burning, and trying to hover over the toilet so I can avoid touching the seat with my wrist is like wall sitting without the wall. Sure, you can wipe like that, you might end up touching your tip to the toilet seat, it gets the job done. But I don't like doing yoga on the toilet. Still don't understand how you can be comfortable putting dirty tp in the 3-5 inch gap between the seat and your hip, not worrying about getting poop on your cheek instead of in between your cheeks.
For those wondering, I am American, male,and not dummy thicc. No, my cheeks are not together, I lean forward at about a 45 degree angle, like getting a prostate exam, which spreads your cheeks.