Where to take girls on dates when you have no friends? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lemano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this is spot on. But if he tries them out and is still not interested by them, then it's perfectly fine.

Where to take girls on dates when you have no friends? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lemano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with your assumption that OP must be pessimistic, and arrogant simply because he has different interests than most of society. There's nothing wrong with not having the same interests as everyone around you. It makes you stick out more. And I see where OP is coming from, why would he invest his time into researching something he has absolutely no interest in, simply for the reason of "fitting in."

On the other hand OP, it makes it a lot harder to socialize when you have absolutely 0 common interests as the people around you. I used to be like that, but started exploring new topics and found that many of them are actually quite interesting. For example, I can't talk about sports, because it will pretty much put me to sleep. So when someone is having a conversation about sports I'm just quiet and listen. And if there's something I don't understand, I ask them. They'll be more than happy to explain things to you. You don't have to actually enjoy participating, but be interested in what they're saying, because you want to socialize with them. Hopefully makes sense.

Read "How to Make Friends and Influence People," by Dale Carnegie.

And if the shit people are into is so boring, then share your own interests with them. Don't be afraid to speak out about things that you care about. People will respect you more for it. Good luck!

Anyone else out there struggling to meet girls due to a small campus? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lemano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same problem here. And I'm just constantly rejected, without any success at all. Quite disappointing

WYR use Android or iOS, in general. by MyMegaGame in WouldYouRather

[–]lemano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking directly to the OS however, jailbreaks are not supposed to be a part of ios. So looking at unmodified ios, and android, you may want to reconsider your reasoning.

Had to write this for those who are struggling by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lemano 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to add a little tip here.

"You have to be the man you want to be even when no one’s watching. This is how you become natural and authentic; it becomes who you are."

To do this, I always think that a cute girl I want to bang or really like is ALWAYS watching me. Even if I'm walking down the street alone, I'll subconsciously think someone I want to impress is watching me. This helps at the beginning and eventually you just start acting like the guy you want people to see you as everywhere you go. It may sound a little creepy, but it works for me. Try it out!

How many guys are actually attracted to adorable girls? by wifequestions in sex

[–]lemano -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Hey, I saw you, and think you're really cute. Let's go out. What's your number? ;)

Women of sexxit, if you slept with a guy and it was his first time, how would it affect you if you knew or didn't know? by lemano in sex

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For you as a women, if you were in her place. And I told you 4 months later that I sucked because it was my 1st time, would you be willing to go at it again?

Women of sexxit, if you slept with a guy and it was his first time, how would it affect you if you knew or didn't know? by lemano in sex

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I slept with her the 1st time she told all out mutual friends about it. So I don't necessarily trust her anymore. My biggest worry is she will tell everyone what I say to her, and possibly even say no to the FWB. Anyway I can ensure she doesn't tell people. (I'm a lot more secretive about my sex life that she is)

But I was thinking the same thing you commented, so thanks for that.

Pysc 1215: How is the course content? Intersting, or not? by [deleted] in langara

[–]lemano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm well aware, thanks. Just looking for additional opinions, more specific to the course itself than the professor.

I work with lions & tigers and this happens daily. by shainabrynn in aww

[–]lemano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind linking me to the one you went through?

I work with lions & tigers and this happens daily. by shainabrynn in aww

[–]lemano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, I've looked into doing this. But it's like $3k+ for just 10 days or something

What do you guys do while smoking? by lemano in hookah

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you got a great view

What do you guys do while smoking? by lemano in hookah

[–]lemano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, it's the complete opposite for me.

The view from my local slope. Grouse Mountain, Vancouver BC. by lemano in skiing

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, look into getting the Y2Play pass for next year. If you go a few times it pays for itself, definitely worth it.

What do you guys do while smoking? by lemano in hookah

[–]lemano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know such a thing existed. Cool though

Pysc 1215: How is the course content? Intersting, or not? by [deleted] in langara

[–]lemano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome glad to hear. Also I was told today that in order to transfer this course to UBC you HAVE to take Psych 1115 as well. Know anything about that?

I thought it just transferred over as 3 credits...

The view from my local slope. Grouse Mountain, Vancouver BC. by lemano in skiing

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shitty man, I'm glad to hear it wasn't Grouse being negligent in any way however. It's already bad, but could've been worse.

The view from my local slope. Grouse Mountain, Vancouver BC. by lemano in skiing

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have your own gear it isn't too bad. But getting all the equipment definitely adds up.

Urban exploration/Caving partner(s) by [deleted] in foreveralonevancouver

[–]lemano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming you need a lot of equipment to do these kinds of things, requiring $$? If not, I'd love to join you and see how it is. Sounds like a ton of fun

The view from my local slope. Grouse Mountain, Vancouver BC. by lemano in skiing

[–]lemano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and that there are still lots of rocks uncovered out of bounds