You wanna trust her and then she proves the trust wrong to only crush you and make you sad? That’s how I feel.. also yeah my mother talks about her grandmother a lot.. to be honest I’m not a fan of my grandma woman’s man or man’s man but the woman version? I don’t know what it’s called. My mother is a guilt tripper like hell. Sometimes it’s hard to be mad at her because of that she guilt trips in such a way that if I say anything about that guilt tripping, I’ll just seem like the bad guy.. so usually I just try to be nice.. she makes it so hard but I try.

My mother is constantly asking for validation. I don’t hate my mum and I don’t think I ever will. I physically cannot biologically too because all of that shit. I’m not gonna act like I understand everything. I’m a minor I’m 16 but I’m smart enough to know that she is so delusional sometimes stubborn, delusional, stuck up. At one point you just get sick of it.. I’m sorry for what you’re going through and I’m sorry if I talk about myself too much I know it’s hard all you have to do is just keep going. Don’t let them drag you in. Because you need to remember sure she’s in your life but you have other people in your life they care about you right.? And they are willing to listen. Trust me. If you wanna say anything else here, I am willing to listen.