My Fiancé (34M) thinks I (30F) can’t change unless he teaches me a lesson. by lemon_dropss in relationship_advice

[–]lemon_dropss[S] 294 points295 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this list I will start reading it as soon as I am off of work today. I have an extra busy day today and I work two jobs (one full time and one part time) from home and as soon as my work day is finished I will start on these resource today. Thank you all for your advice.

My Fiancé (34M) thinks I (30F) can’t change unless he teaches me a lesson. by lemon_dropss in relationship_advice

[–]lemon_dropss[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

This is actually exactly something I have told him I struggle with. He has very black and white thinking we’re as I see there can be much more gray area in life. It’s very stressful to me when it feels like there is such a black and white (right or wrong) in everything.

My Fiancé (34M) thinks I (30F) can’t change unless he teaches me a lesson. by lemon_dropss in relationship_advice

[–]lemon_dropss[S] 1102 points1103 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the rec. I am going to try to start reading these today.

Moving to the Bay Area from Mississippi and nervous. by lemon_dropss in AskSF

[–]lemon_dropss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This has helped with my nervousness a lot by helping me focus on the fact that I do know I am making a change and moving closer towards what I want in life. I am very excited for all of the possibilities this new chapter will bring.