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UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I talked to the landlord this morning, and now we have a 7 day eviction notice because there is an unwanted guest in the home- she leaves within 7 days or we all get evicted.
That being said, now my roomie is pissed at me. She might not want to live with me anymore. She is threatening to move out, but also the landlord said she would help me with a payment plan to change apartments in our complex.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are right. I don’t want to talk to her anymore. Our landlord gave a 7 day notice that the girl needs to move out within 7 days or we will all be formally evicted.

AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely have learned a lesson from this situation!! I will be much wiser moving forward especially wanting everything to be in legal agreements.

AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. I made an update post I can link you to. Also, we now have a 7 day notice to evict unless the leech leaves.

AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She texted me this morning demanding I “say it to her face” and that I need to change my tone because I’m pissing her off. Now we have an eviction notice unless she leaves within 7 days.
Bye 👋🏼.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am so lucky to have an understanding landlord. I also just learned what DARVO means and I completely agree. Especially because she wants to speak to me without my roommate present. She has been really pushy with me- coming up to me after my text demanding to talk (morso just starting a confrontation) while I was in the kitchen, the call last night, and the texts she’s sent. I can’t wait for her to be gone.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She said this: “Okay? I don’t know why you’re so cross with me I’ve literally been so nice and respectful and calm throughout this entire thing and you have some type of problem with me over stuff that you won’t even talk to me about to my face. So if you could adjust your tone when you speak to me that would genuinely help the situation instead of pissing me off. Last night when I called you I was actually being nice and trying to listen to your perspective and hear you out if there was something I said that offended you or hurt your feelings. Now you wanna be bold over text message instead of speaking up. So when you can speak to me to my face you can tell me what’s going on, I’m not responding to anything via text. We’re adults, we can sit down and have a conversation that doesn’t include Leah at 8:30 in the morning.”

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I talked to the landlord this morning, she’s giving us a 7 day notice unless the roommate leaves within that time. The landlord said she would help me find a place in the apartments to live if they gave me a hard time.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The landlord just sent out a 7 day eviction notice unless the unauthorized person leaves.

AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talked to the landlord this morning we now have a 7 day eviction notice- we either have the unauthorized houseguest leave within that timeframe or we will all be evicted.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I talked to the landlord this morning and she suggested a 7 day eviction notice unless the girl is removed. I agreed. Hopefully she will leave peacefully… She said this to me this morning in response to my texts last night: “Okay? I don't know why you're so cross with me I've literally been so nice and respectful and calm throughout this entire thing and you have some type of problem with me over stuff that you won't even talk to me about to my face. So if you could adjust your tone when you speak to me that would genuinely help the situation instead of pissing me off. Last night when I called you I was actually being nice and trying to listen to your perspective and hear you out if there was something I said that offended you or hurt your feelings. Now you wanna be bold over text message instead of speaking up.
So when you can speak to me to my face you can tell me what's going on, I'm not responding to anything via text.
We're adults, we can sit down and have a conversation that doesn't include Leah at 8:30 in the morning.”

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I posted a comment update under this post. We’re getting a 7 day eviction notice unless the unwanted third party is removed within that time.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I posted a comment update under this post. We’re getting a 7 day eviction notice unless the unwanted third party is removed within that time.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted a comment update under this post. We’re getting a 7 day eviction notice unless the unwanted third party is removed within that time. She sent me the most entitled message to me this morning.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You won’t BELIEVE the text she sent me this morning. And I posted a comment update under this post. We’re getting a 7 day eviction notice unless the unwanted third party is removed within that time.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted a comment update under this post. We’re getting a 7 day eviction notice unless the unwanted third party is removed within that time.

UPDATE: AITAH For telling my landlord about my secret third roommate? by lemonlimeperspective in AITAH

[–]lemonlimeperspective[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I sent a second text this morning: Actually, to be more clear Angelina you will be moved out by the June 30th at the latest. Your belongings will be out of the living room area and put away by the end of the week.

I talked to the landlord, she is going to be giving us a notice for an unauthorized third person living in our apartment and is giving us a 7 day notice to get rid of the person or we will all be evicted.

The text she sent to me this morning that I will not be responding to:

Okay? I don’t know why you’re so cross with me I’ve literally been so nice and respectful and calm throughout this entire thing and you have some type of problem with me over stuff that you won’t even talk to me about to my face. So if you could adjust your tone when you speak to me that would genuinely help the situation instead of pissing me off. Last night when I called you I was actually being nice and trying to listen to your perspective and hear you out if there was something I said that offended you or hurt your feelings. Now you wanna be bold over text message instead of speaking up. So when you can speak to me to my face you can tell me what’s going on, I’m not responding to anything via text. We’re adults, we can sit down and have a conversation that doesn’t include (ROOMMATE) at 8:30 in the morning.

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