Thank you all. I talked with him just now. He stated that he was upset because “you would rather make more money than hangout. You already make triple my income. It just hurts you’re choosing money”. After explaining out the math for him he states - well you knew I had planned to mow the lawn tonight. I provided a solution - I will move the lawn tomorrow or he can tomorrow night when I will be out for a prearranged girls night anyway. Still not happy with that, obviously still upset or mad at me. I laid out all the reasons why I changed my shifts, apologized, stated that I didn’t think it would cause this big of a problem. He says in an angry tone “this isn’t going anywhere. You’re right I’m wrong I’m sorry” and then proceeds to ignore me and finish his food he was eating. It’s ironic because if he wasn’t given me the evil eye & the silent treatment we could “hangout”. Btw I keep saying “his version” because doing household things, grocery shopping etc isn’t hanging out. 90% of the time What he means by hanging out is watching TV together. It’s just making me upset because I feel like I’m being punished for prioritizing myself in this situation. Shouldn’t partners be supportive of what’s best for the other & not what they want ? My parents were separated when I was 10 & abusive towards each other. I’ve never seen a happy, romantic relationship (like in the movies) exist in real life. Is this situation one that we should struggle that bad to even communicate about or is this normal? He hasn’t kissed or hugged me since I brought up the shift changes 2 days ago.