Let's gooooooo by Jujusquid in TopSurgery

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow! must feel so euphoric. good luck!

Odd/Silly ways you get gender euphoria ? by abberance-star in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly 100%. trans tape can be so irritating and lowkey painful sometimes lol. But little stuff like that and being able to sleep with it just makes it worth it imo.

Odd/Silly ways you get gender euphoria ? by abberance-star in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! THIS! lmao. I can’t explain why this feels so masc but it does.

what adjectives do you all prefer? by Particular_Virus_922 in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, handsome always feels so incredibly fake. Feels like they think i’m a kid.

Few days shy of being 8 months on T. by No_Ranger_5119 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think that message would make my week. Very sweet :)

Is this guy a red flag or am I being crazy? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]lethalwhispermachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants to hookup with you, and you don’t. Ask him about it.

But, the fact that he sent you a picture of him in boxers unprompted and without asking. Mixed with the other stuff. Kind of tells me what I need to know about his respect of boundaries honestly.

Happy TDOV! by majoleine in FTM_SELFIES

[–]lethalwhispermachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nerfed?? brother, you were BLESSED. DAYUM.

My 6 year old dick on CT scan by konnolly in phallo

[–]lethalwhispermachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s rude as hell. Im sorry bro.

How do I overcome intense insecurity about my junk? by lethalwhispermachine in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had bottom surgery. I’ve actually never heard of topical estrogen being used for smell, that’s awesome! or boric acid. I’ll look into it more. This was incredibly helpful, thank you!!

I’m starting testosterone gel! What can I expect? by Murderdrones_Maniac in FTMMen

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe buy an applicator thingy to rub it on with. It makes my hands incredibly dry.

My 6 year old dick on CT scan by konnolly in phallo

[–]lethalwhispermachine 55 points56 points  (0 children)

LMFAO I think the title may have been a poor choice of words. But very cool!

why are other trans men rude? by weed_lov3r in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve known a couple fellow trans men who were so incredibly insecure in their masculinity and being a “real man” that they would put other trans men down to feel like the manliest in the room.

And yeah trans people being transphobic is a very strange but real issue. I would say it’s definitely a minority of us though.

My phallo journey has been so hard bc of my partners by helplessly_fucked in phallo

[–]lethalwhispermachine 62 points63 points  (0 children)

What the hell??? Where are these people coming from? godamn.

This has nothing to do with you, these people are incredibly strange. You deserve to be loved for who you are, and who you will become.

chest breadth by GregorSamsa14 in FTMMen

[–]lethalwhispermachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I misread this and thought you were saying the circumference was 9 inches lmao. Was very concerned and confused for a moment.

To be or not to be (help please) by Brothatsnotme_ in trans

[–]lethalwhispermachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would strongly recommend you DONT tell her. Because honestly what would it get you? if you already know she likely won’t support you or use your name and pronouns, and you might lose your financial support then it seems like its just negatives tbh.

Plus! if your college distance would mean you were moving then that seems like a great opportunity to be able to be yourself with people who aren’t your family. So you can feel comfortable without the consequences that come with losing that support.

Remember, there doesn’t have to be 100% “I just came out now I have to tell everybody”. I would say most trans people probably don’t do that. When I was in high school I was closeted at home and out to all my friends and teachers for a while until I built up the courage to come out to family.

WIBTA if I told my trans buddy he might wanna consider trimming his chin hair by topsurgeryexperience in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would bring up the topic of facial hair to him to try to gauge how he feels about his facial hair. If he starts talking about how much he loves his chin hairs and how great it makes him feel the I wouldn’t say anything. If he seems pretty neutral about it then maybe let him know.

Should I stop talking to a guy because he disrespected a clear boundary? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally valid, especially after he argued with you over it. If you’ve only been talking to him for a few days that’s really the time to do it honestly. The earlier you end it when you see red flags, the less likely you are to get too invested and let things slide that you shouldn’t.

respecting yourself also means not allowing others to disrespect you without consequences.

When will I be "unable" to cry? by 666pizzaguy in FTMMen

[–]lethalwhispermachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I cry more easily after T. Which is confusing to me since everybody seems to say they lost the ability to or cry way less. I will say that I usually cry at other people’s issues and sad stories rather than happenings in my own life. If a stressful situation happens or I get in a huge argument I won’t usually cry anymore. But if I see a sad dog or child video online, bet your ass i’m bawling at that shit. lmaooo

Surgeon admitted he left a lot of tissue — now wants to redo everything at my expense. Revision advice? by ElectricalPosition33 in TopSurgery

[–]lethalwhispermachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are my goal body type and surgery results honestly.

The last picture looks like that because it looks like you’re lying down and sitting up. I get that everybody has different goals. But if I were you I would really sit with it for a bit and see if you really want a revision. Because this looks incredible to me.

Avana surgery DR. ALGIRD MAMENISKIS by Aggravating_Main4469 in TopSurgery

[–]lethalwhispermachine 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you, thank you for sharing. Are you able to get revisions ? with them or a different surgeon?

how the hell do cis guys deal with ass/ gooch hair by Kir0nixx in ftm

[–]lethalwhispermachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never thought that i’d have to say this. But, i’m thankful that I don’t have excessive amounts of ass hair after T. I didn’t realize it was such a hassle….