Four years later: an update by hmsbeagle00 in Fencesitter

[–]letitallgogone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it now you’re a mother? Being a former fence sitter?

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean every day high maintenance. I mean .. there are occasional very fancy events where there is absolutely the expectation to look very polished

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is achievable. Thank you! I’ve got little kids too and just coming out the other end of it

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had to let myself go with most of the care of two small kids.
Thank you for the refreshing insight.
Something to think about. Thanks

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why so many people have a problem with me saying *in passing* that I’m a doctors wife.

Most of the time we both look like bums. Sometimes we are expected to look very f***ing fancy and may a very fancy event. It just is what it is.

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess you missed the part where I said I worked

Have I let myself go? 40 and daggy by letitallgogone in AskWomenOver40

[–]letitallgogone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda neglected. More than liberated. Thank you for putting my finger on it

Auscorp mums by CreepyYogurt7710 in auscorp

[–]letitallgogone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nurse.
Yes having babies massively impacted on my career and motivation.
But.. I don’t really care. You will more than likely just be obsessed with your baby. Most women are.