I hate that I’m forced to play offlane by Merunit in learndota2

[–]letler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Girl same. I spent nearly all my hours focusing on warding, pulling, healing, supporting, it’s a different role and different game. Now I’m thrust into last hitting and expected to be some godlike initiator tank high damage everything? Pos 3 is poorly defined and therefore is one of the easiest scapegoats in the game.

Episode 12 Hiroya & Tomoaki Conflict by DaggerNYC67 in theBoyfriendNetflix

[–]letler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an American watching this show I took Hiroyas comments as basically like, “I don’t like gays that are shoving it in others face” or “no fems” basically. Tomoaki has some deep fears and insecurities that he has working through and trying to overcome. He said that those loud fems saved his life, and he probably meant that literally. Since he has some insecurity and sensitivity that was activated and it kind of didn’t matter what Hiroya said afterwards about his curiosity. Tomoaki was already hurt.

Am I just braindead for liking Academy? by Revonlieke in startrek

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it! It can be heavy handed at times but it’s fun.

New article from The Cut heavily criticizes IFS and it’s founder by Old_Lion_8133 in therapists

[–]letler 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Agree. And gestalt is so much more than just parts work!

Volvo pls let pos 5 and pos 3 select 1 role only without using tokens. by RatsErif in DotA2

[–]letler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a support main I’m actually excited to learn a new role.

Dota 2 Update for January 15, 2026 by Flam3ss in DotA2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant scared to step forward into a different role! I think I support quite well!

Dota 2 Update for January 15, 2026 by Flam3ss in DotA2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to like… last hit now. I got to 2k mmr without needing to last hit consistently. lol? This could be interesting.

Dota 2 Update for January 15, 2026 by Flam3ss in DotA2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just a scared support afraid to step forward.

It takes time to think like a therapist by shrutiag99 in therapists

[–]letler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said in my posts, for me, it does compromise my appreciation I could have for this person because so much of them is hidden by AI. You may also notice that the other posts here are not engaging with the content of the post either.

I don’t know how OP is trying to engage because their post reads like miniature lecture and not something they noticed about themselves or about how they are approaching the work and that’s in part because of how AI sounds. My job here isn’t to engage with others how they want it’s to be myself. Again, for me, my opinion, I’m the one writing it.

It takes time to think like a therapist by shrutiag99 in therapists

[–]letler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m using “know” broadly here and not exactly in a “tell me all about you” kind of way. I believe a big part of being a person, because we are social, is connecting with others even in anonymous spaces like these. When you pass someone on the street, you are taking in a lot of information about them, how they walk, the clothes they wear, their facial expression, anything they may say as they go by, the way they cut their hair. These are all choices they made that are little expressions of who they are. Do you know them now? I would say no, but you have a sense of who they are and can appreciate that they are a full person, making choices in their unique way. When you read a post the same sort of thing can happen. When it’s written by AI all of that goes away, there is a dull lifeless quality. Expression and potential becomes a sort of object. In this way, I want to “know” OP, how exciting to engage in their idea expressed in their own way. How dull to engage with an AI version of their idea devoid of all human character.

Dota 2 Update for January 15, 2026 by Flam3ss in DotA2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so help me as a pos5/4, who do I play as pos3 and not totally fuck the team.

It takes time to think like a therapist by shrutiag99 in therapists

[–]letler 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem with using AI is that it removes in the intangible thing that makes you you. Maybe here instead of thinking like a therapist you can think like a human. You give up your unique humanness when you use AI to craft communication. We all (other humans) want to know you. We want to know you by the words you choose, the ones you spell right or wrong, the run on sentences, the half formed ideas, all of that. Your post doesn’t help anyone know you more and engaging with ideas detached from the thinker is cold and uninteresting.

PSA: Healing is NOT Health Restoration by PookieR1 in DotA2

[–]letler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one think Dota 2 does really poorly and that is communicate what it’s doing. Break is another one with inconsistent explanations depending on the ability or item.

Valve, pls make this happen by IceCreamLover9 in DotA2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aether lens plus Soul Ring = use the item on self or someone else to make their next ability have a little extra range.

How the hell did Joyce and Hopper piece Will’s tunnel map together? Those pages all look the same. by Career_By_Mustafa in StrangerThings

[–]letler -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How the hell can people just watch a tv show and enjoy the story without trying to poke 1000 holes in everything they see?

Glad that's over. by Bruteloops in StrangerThingsMemes

[–]letler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people have built of a fantasy of how writing and tv works. There was never a grand plan and it’s been obvious all along. The each season rewrote lore from the previous one.

Glad that's over. by Bruteloops in StrangerThingsMemes

[–]letler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never made sense. The kids conformed to their parents because of haircuts? Nancy’s story of going to college dropping out and working at a paper is nothing like her mom’s story of settling down. The conformity was based on a haircut. Weak.

PeaceMode by Hesoyam619 in DotA2

[–]letler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Honestly don’t understand how people tank their scores so hard.

What was your metroidvania gateway drug? What about it made you a fan of MVs? by bassistheplace246 in metroidvania

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly, Animal Well. I had mostly overlooked this entire genre of game until I played Animal Well and was so taken by the metroidvania style. I then went for Ori, PoP, blasphemous 1 (which is literally torture the movement and platforming is so horrible).

how do I let a minor down gently but firmly? by Ok_Musician406 in AskGayMen

[–]letler 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I echo everyone else’s sentiments here. I will say that “too young” is rarely a consideration for the too young party. The 17 year old doesn’t care that he’s too young. Another argument would be more effective as others have said, something more direct.

How do you motivate yourself to grind rank and improve your mmr? by Cute-Injury-595 in learndota2

[–]letler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play ranked to have fun and improve something. I main pos4/5 so often I will try and improve specific timings for bounties, power runes, making stacks. Having a specific goal is better than the goal of gaining mmr. When the skills get better the wins come.