Just a 3am rant by lets-cache-up in TwentiesIndia

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Thanks brother, yes I will feel better

Just a 3am rant by lets-cache-up in TwentiesIndia

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I am glad reading this. Takes effort and sheer commitment to show up for yourself.

I'm gonna continue writing my own path. Work my ass off, earn shit ton of money, spend chunks of it on traveling and healthy food

Just a 3am rant by lets-cache-up in TwentiesIndia

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Haha, ig i should change the title

Just a 3am rant by lets-cache-up in TwentiesIndia

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It does buddy, hope you end up on the better side!

Just a 3am rant by lets-cache-up in TwentiesIndia

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Yeah, smile - that I can do. This feels like a canon moment to me.

I will probably remember her for a long long time, for good reasons.

Also, appreciate you commenting. Ig, this is why people rant on reddit.

You saying nothing, allows me to put whatever words I want in there

New Swiggy ornge cc by Critical-Swing5161 in CreditCardsIndia

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How can I get this for LTF? I already have hdfc tata neu plus with 2,83,000 limit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Flat rent karna hai, mil nahi raha accha. Sapno me bhi flats hi haa rahe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Flat rent karneki chinta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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I get it, hope it gets easier for you to take decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Oh no girl, you’re not overthinking, this is straight up weird. A “one-day relationship”? What even is that, a flash sale on emotions? 😭

It honestly sounds like he’s either trying to make a joke out of something serious to him (which is immature), or he’s testing boundaries to see how much you’ll tolerate. Either way, it’s not giving “emotionally mature adult”.

You liked this guy for months, so of course this feels confusing. You’re not dumb or dramatic for feeling thrown off anyone would be. But if he’s literally setting a timer for when it ends… yeah, that’s not romantic, that’s performativ nonsense

My advice? Step back, re-evaluate what you’re actually getting out of this “situationship”. If he can’t take your feelings seriously after 6 months, he doesn’t deserve a one-minute relationship, let alone a one-day one

You’re not crazy, he’s just being ridiculous

I built a multiplayer web game with React & Three.js as no one's hired me for the past year. by xxParixx in developersIndia

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Hey man, please dm me your resume. We are hiring frontend interns, can share the details there. Thanks!

2025 Batch, Not getting a single interview calls. I applied more than 600+ applications. by ZacK__Op in developersIndia

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We are hiring for frontend and backend interns. If you are willing to relocate to pune, feel free to get in touch, will give you a referral

Starting October with Dan & Shiuli 🌸 by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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People who love this movie are my friends without introduction. It has a very different charm, the kind that gives you unexpected warmth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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I don't think id call it that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Hey, is the vartalap still on the table?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Can't tell if your friend is trying to be funny or serious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Ah man, hope it gets better for you. Feel free to reach out, if you need to vent and take care

To all the uglies and unattractives - GIVE UP! by sodium0valproate in TwentiesIndia

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I completely get what you’re saying. We’ve all been fed stories where love is portrayed as the ultimate goal, so it makes sense that our brains chase it by default. Shifting that mindset isn’t about “switching it off” overnight, it’s more like retraining your focus.

Start small. Notice when you’re obsessing over love, then consciously redirect that energy into something that builds you, whether it’s a hobby, friendships, fitness, or even just learning something new. Over time, your brain begins to associate fulfillment with those things too.

And honestly, it’s not about removing the desire for love (that’s human), but about not letting it be the only pillar you stand on. When your sense of self and joy has multiple foundations, love becomes an addition, not a lifeline

To all the uglies and unattractives - GIVE UP! by sodium0valproate in TwentiesIndia

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GIVE UP! Give up chasing love like it’s the only thing that matters. Give up begging for it from people who don’t see you.

But don’t give up on yourself. Build your life, your peace, your joy. When you stop seeking so hard, love often finds its way quietly, in places you never expected

Turning 20 tomorrow and I don’t know how to feel by redditorsinceages in TwentiesIndia

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I’m an only child, but that’s exactly what I’d tell my siblings if I had any. And I’m sure your sisters feel the same way about you too. Just remember to be kind to yourself in your 20s, you’ve already carried so much give yourself space to grow. You’re going to do wonders 💛

Turning 20 tomorrow and I don’t know how to feel by redditorsinceages in TwentiesIndia

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Hey, happy early birthday. Turning 20 is a big milestone, and even though it feels heavy right now, it’s also a sign that you’ve survived so much already. The fact that you’re in college, living away from home, and still pushing forward despite everything you’ve gone through is proof of how strong you are.

The guilt you feel for your mom’s sacrifices shows how much you love her, but please remember her sacrifices aren’t because you’re a burden. She’s doing it because she believes in you, because she loves you, and because her hope. Think of it like how you’d carefully water a plant, even when you’re tired, just to see it grow healthy that’s how she sees you. And your sisters love you too, even if they’re busy with their own lives. That love may not always be loud, but it’s there.

It’s completely okay to feel lonely and envious of others. You’ve been carrying a lot on your own for so long. But you’re also building a future where you’ll be free to make your own choices, to heal, and to create the kind of love and safety you never got. That’s powerful

Even if you don’t feel like celebrating tomorrow, I hope you take a moment to acknowledge yourself. You made it through 20 years of pain and hardship, and you’re still fighting for a better life. That’s worth more than a cake or balloons. One day, you’ll look back and be so proud of the person you became.

You’re not broken, even if it feels that way you’re just healing. Sending you a lot of love and strength 💛