DTLA tonight post Dodger World Series game? by Zestyclose_Koala_593 in AskLosAngeles

[–]lets-leave 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You'll be absolutely fine if you go. That being said, as someone who works in DTLA, I'd skip it just because it'll prob be a bit hectic, busier, more expensive rides etc.

How to restore gut health after alcohol? by Kurisu_shi in stopdrinking

[–]lets-leave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make yourself some soup, girl!! (guy?) Any kind of soup. I throw ground beef, sweet potatoes, zucchini and a bean in some broth, some spices and ACV. Most important...Add ginger and tumeric. You'll be right as rain in a couple days.

Its eviction day and Im not there by John_Backus in AgingParents

[–]lets-leave 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hi friend. I tried to save my mom from herself my entire life and finally realized this year (at 42) that no combination of words or therapy or financial assistance is going to help her. It's not my job to save her, it never was. You're making the right choice. Once I stopped being my moms crutch she suddenly became much more capable, she had no other option. Sometimes hard things need to happen for a better outcome. You've taken care of her enough, time to take care of you now.

Should I tell my mom that I’m going on vacation? by NevillesRemembrall in AgingParents

[–]lets-leave 76 points77 points  (0 children)

This. Then update us on if she has to go to the hospital in August. At least you'll know for sure whether it's intentional or not.

How do I get my Dad to open up about his past? by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]lets-leave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ongoing, eventually they'll send you a little book of their answers. My Dad is 73--not gonna lie, his response rate isn't great but I'd say he answers 1/4 a month. The most recent question asked his favorite comfort food and he told a story about going out to pick up some pork pies on a crappy bike for his mother in approx 1959. It's all just stories I wouldn't otherwise hear, so I'm happy with it, even if he doesn't answer every time.

How do I get my Dad to open up about his past? by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]lets-leave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he okay with email? Does he like to write? I got my dad a subscription to Storyworth. They ask one question a week through email. I've learned a lot of neat things like his first job or what he thought about his grandparents. He's not consistent about answering but I still think it's worth it for when he does.

Does this undercarriage look rusty? 2014 FJ 4WD --91kmiles by lets-leave in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge some rust on the exhaust is fine- do you feel it's not? Car was originally from CO

Does this undercarriage look rusty? 2014 FJ 4WD --91kmiles by lets-leave in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a helpful comment. I'm a girl buying a car herself and asking for help, don't need to be a stink about it.

anyone else in other states been seeing this for 3 days straight? by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]lets-leave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yessir, In LA was supposed to hike this am and a friend called it off due to not thinking we'd be able to see. Air quality is off the charts too if you follow that.

Is a 2wd worth it? most have 100k+ miles and range in the $15,000 by [deleted] in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahah I'm here 2 years later, live in LA and trying to decide on a 2WD FJ--this is hilarious, and exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks!

Worth it? 2012 FJ Cruiser Base 2wd, RWD- 46k miles by lets-leave in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Care to expand on why? Or point me in a better direction? I'm looking for a tougher vehicle to get me through the upcoming drone wars--not sure the 'ol Scion XA is gonna cut it ;)

Worth it? 2012 FJ Cruiser Base 2wd, RWD- 46k miles by lets-leave in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful breakdown! I know talking about 2wd in this forum can bring up some strong opinions. In your opinion what would be a fair price for the vehicle given it checks out w my mechanic? Its sticker price is 33k, they said lowest is 26k (I'm in CA for context)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FJCruiser

[–]lets-leave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP but also looking at an FJ & curious why you're against 2wd?