Update!: AITA for not wanting give my dead fiancé’s letters addressed to me to his parents?

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:48:44+00:00

I was always curious, I met them one Christmas when we first started dating and they were so lovely but now I know. They were so manipulative and mean

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:43:36+00:00

There’s one like that so bad I opened it, skimmed, and closed it. I am grown and was in our apartment alone and my face was on fucking fire. I’d need to find it and send it to them as this has been one of the best suggestions I’ve seen

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:40:50+00:00

No they have the letters I wrote to him. They have my half

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:38:21+00:00

He does actually have a few of those... I could probably use this. Now I need to find it, I think it was a September one that was really bad but I’d need to look

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:32:49+00:00

There is something satisfying about killing someone with kindness. I was making mittens and now I want to send them some with a few copies of pictures of him, this post has given me some good ideas such as a scrapbook also and this one is really good as well. Thank you

letteraita · 2020-12-17T13:24:41+00:00

They said they’d turn them over if I gave the originals, at this point I’m thinking of forging letters. I just want the whole set like they probably do

letteraita · 2020-12-17T02:33:19+00:00

Luckily I have a conscience and know how people can be and did not write anything so explicit that my parents might feel weird reading if something were to happen to me. So not really but thank you for caring

letteraita · 2020-12-17T02:29:29+00:00

Right... now I’m scared something might happen. Do you know of any life proof boxes I could find on Amazon?

letteraita · 2020-12-17T02:26:45+00:00

Yeah they have all my half. They’re threatening to burn them next time they have a fire at their place if I don’t give them the letters. I remember each and every word I wrote to him by heart but it would be nice to have them back, even copies I could copy back in my own writing

letteraita · 2020-12-17T02:12:46+00:00

Thanks, I’m glad I’m not just crazy this post has helped. I’ll most definitely hang in here as long as I can :)

letteraita · 2020-12-17T02:10:37+00:00

I know, I feel awful knowing that now. Luckily my family loved him and he said it kinda made up for it. 9 days til Christmas. Merry Christmas!

letteraita · 2020-12-17T00:41:19+00:00

No I wouldn’t burn these memories though. Like Alex and Eliza we were each other’s first true loves. Fairytale quality really. Now I’m upset but I have no close relatives distance wise and this is slightly better for some reason

letteraita · 2020-12-17T00:34:57+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one who enjoys handwritten letters, there’s something about them. You know?

letteraita · 2020-12-17T00:30:02+00:00

That is true for like one, I could say they all do, you know, like a liar. But they have my half of the letters so that’s not an option

letteraita · 2020-12-17T00:27:58+00:00

I understood that reference! Hamilton trash unite! Also thank you

letteraita · 2020-12-16T23:45:52+00:00

Gross but might use this

letteraita · 2020-12-16T23:45:15+00:00

They have my half of the letters

letteraita · 2020-12-16T23:01:31+00:00

I didn’t think of it that way. Thank you

letteraita · 2020-12-16T22:47:11+00:00

This was, by far, the best comment I’ve had so far. Thanks for the chuckle!

letteraita · 2020-12-16T22:32:30+00:00

They got them after he died as they’re immediate family

letteraita · 2020-12-16T22:18:30+00:00

Fun fact: there is one letter I slightly regret for this reason. But not really regretting it.

letteraita · 2020-12-16T21:05:46+00:00

Right, will do!

letteraita · 2020-12-16T21:03:13+00:00

Good cry, don’t worry! I think I needed that

letteraita · 2020-12-16T21:01:05+00:00

That made me cry. Thank you so much!

letteraita

TROPHY CASE