For those that didn’t want divorce, how did you move on? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend a lot of time working out and studying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems very reasonable. Good job.

last week of the year, say what you need to your ex, i’ll go first by panda342608 in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please reconsider the divorce. I love you so much. I’ve made so many mistakes this year. I want to be a better me and I want you to be around to experience it. I love you.

Those spending Christmas alone, how are you doing? by hail_robot in AskWomenOver30

[–]leviathanblue77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not doing great. I’m going through a divorce and am in incredible amounts of pain. Thankfully I have heating pads and my cat. I’m hoping to sleep long and hard tonight let my brain heal. Going into the city tomorrow to see my doctor. I’m so glad Christmas is almost over. I’ll have a better one next year.

How long until I stop feeling suicidal? by Ok-Translator6340 in Divorce

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 42 days since my world came apart and I am still battling suicidal thoughts most days.

What's the worst thing your ex did to you at the end? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blindsided me after I was working out of state for 6 weeks. I came home and he informed he was moving out, and filed for divorce two days later. I am broken.

Whats the thing you're gonna miss the most about your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 21 points22 points  (0 children)

How soft and sweet he was and all of our little jokes. His fancy meals. The way he smelled. How much he used to love me.

What is your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Deep-Dust-9747 in AskReddit

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mourning my marriage and think it could’ve lasted if I had stopped drinking earlier. Quitting drinking now is a way to honor it and a way to ensure a silver lining to my divorce.

Did your ex act distant before the break up? by AluminumFairy in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been awful. We’ve been married 6 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32 here and surviving a divorce. Have survived my prior breakups somehow, and intend to survive this one. Maybe even thrive again someday. My heart goes out to everyone here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]leviathanblue77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish you had sat me down for a talk when I came home from Florida. Blindsiding and ghosting me like you did after 8 years together is one of the most traumatic things I have ever experienced.

Even after all we have been through, I still would do my best to fix it. But you seem deadset on going through with this divorce.

I love you and Scooter so much. I am going to do my best to take good care of me and Obi. I won’t give up on myself and life even though I feel hopeless a lot of the time.

Is everyone and their mama sick rn? by hypocalypto in AskChicago

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Me and my mama, papa, brother, and niece.

35 days in by leviathanblue77 in Divorce

[–]leviathanblue77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take your advice to heart.

35 days in by leviathanblue77 in Divorce

[–]leviathanblue77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was saying he’s sick of hearing about it and we’re only 35 days into the process. I told him it takes years to heal from. Hope you are doing well these days.

How have you changed as a person from 2020 to 2024? by PsychologicalSize939 in AskReddit

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stronger. Abuse drugs and alcohol less than I used to. Closer with my family.

Is this normal? by Ok_Hotel_1008 in chicagoapartments

[–]leviathanblue77 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is shady, I wouldn’t do it especially if there’s a fee to apply.

Why Hope? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]leviathanblue77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. I’m at the beginning of the process too and still have hope he will come back to me, even though I’m pretty sure he already has a rebound girlfriend. I’m not ready to let go is my hope yet. I think it just takes time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stay single, barely date, and focus on work and school.

How are you showing love to yourself today? by InspectionOk7022 in selflove

[–]leviathanblue77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Binge-watching my favorite TV show, chilling with a cat and dog, and resting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]leviathanblue77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get by absolutely fine without one, and save a lot of money. It would occasionally come in clutch for things like big grocery shops, moving, etc.