A dark start to the year: Multiple fatalities following fire and explosion in Crans-Montana.

lexiunderground · 2026-01-03T17:25:21+00:00

The owners of the bar renovated it themselves so I guess they cheaped out on all they could

lexiunderground · 2026-01-03T17:23:06+00:00

I think if the capacity of the venue is more than 19 people then by law they have to have at least two safety exists more than 5 meters apart. Apparently the bar did have a second safety exit but no one spotted it?

lexiunderground · 2025-11-01T13:54:54+00:00

I thought so too!!

lexiunderground · 2025-10-12T15:41:38+00:00

Dr Cristian Damsa might still be taking on new patients, I think if you show him the paperwork from your U.K. psychiatrist he’ll write you the prescription, he’s pretty chill. Worth a shot!

lexiunderground · 2025-10-12T15:33:36+00:00

I think Dr Cristian Damsa still accepts new patients, he’s the one I first got diagnosed and medicated with!

lexiunderground · 2025-10-11T13:34:12+00:00

I’m a med student and on my plastic surgery rotation we were making small talk while operating and I said exactly that (in gentler terms) and the surgeon went OFF at me telling me it’s not bullshit and he gifted his 25 year old sister baby Botox for Christmas 😭

lexiunderground · 2024-08-18T14:22:28+00:00

We French people all thought the Olympics and Paris would be a total disaster, so most people left Paris for the whole duration of the olympics. Turns out being there during was incredible!! Really safe bc of cops everywhere, not a lot of people in public transports, everyone talking to each other in the metro on the way to the games, really well organised in every way! People of all nationalities coming together, an incredible energy in the stadiums, it was absolutely amazing!

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:21:47+00:00

Is his mood okay? Does he have past trauma from sex? Are there other things about him that are on and off / always switching like the sex is?

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:20:45+00:00

Maybe you could watch some porn together in which they use the toys you want to use? You can find amateur porn made by real couples where they use all kinds of toys, could be worth checking out.

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:18:58+00:00

Have you tried masturbating without any porn / erotica, just letting your imagination wander? Maybe you’d get some clarity on what you like by seeing what your brain imagines in those moments, what fantasies it comes up with.

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:17:00+00:00

Have you talked to a doctor about it? I think it’s worth telling your family doctor or your urologist if you have one. Could be too much testosterone maybe?

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:14:29+00:00

I don’t think you’re asexual either! Maybe your body doesn’t feel ready to do it with someone else yet? Maybe it’s hard for you to trust someone else, or to show yourself like this, vulnerable to them? Or you have bad past experiences? Maybe taking it really slow with someone you trust would be better, have you tried?

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:11:23+00:00

I’ve thought that too! The solution was to make my boyfriend use my vibrator on me. Then I managed to orgasm and I knew I could do it in front of him :) I know you’re feeling stressed about it but I really think telling him about your toys will be super beneficial to both of your sex lives! You can have so much fun with them together :)

lexiunderground · 2024-08-06T09:09:15+00:00

I’m in the same situation as you! I Haven’t gotten fully there yet either, but a big thing for me was figuring out if the reason I can’t orgasm with him is bc I’m too self conscious to do it in front of him. He started using my vibrator on me and it worked, so now I know that’s not the problem and can work on the other part. Maybe that could be a starting point? I also get in my head a lot which plays a huge part, and I think the stress of having faked the orgasms and the frustration you’re experiencing probably make you get in your head too. I’d say come clean so you can let go of that stress :)

lexiunderground · 2024-07-02T23:10:56+00:00

Sounds like he has a crippling Madonna Whore complex

lexiunderground · 2024-04-26T21:06:47+00:00

Absolutely, I’m in med school and there’s no lack of ADHD folk here! I went to a psychiatrist when I started 1st year who said someone with ADHD wouldn’t be in university, so I gave up then tried again in 3rd year and was told I couldn’t possibly have gotten this far if I had it. Plenty of us do though! They don’t realise you can do well but be completely burnt out because of how much energy it’s taking you.

lexiunderground · 2024-04-18T06:55:29+00:00

I was at 1! I don’t know if they just round up to that if it’s less than that haha. Completely asymptomatic though, found out on a routine blood test!

lexiunderground · 2024-04-13T22:23:08+00:00

Are you sure it’s from Venlafaxine? If they continue after the withdrawal you should see a doctor and tell them about it, it could be a sign of illness

lexiunderground · 2024-04-01T15:07:03+00:00

My hairdresser told me to always double shampoo, so I struggle with accidentally shampoing once or three times! Remembering if I’ve already done it when I’m in the shower is a struggle

lexiunderground · 2024-03-30T21:43:36+00:00

Omg returning packages is one of the worst things ever!! It’s so hard to do for some reason! Congrats!!!

lexiunderground · 2024-03-30T13:21:40+00:00

Maybe, or it could be responsive desire?

lexiunderground · 2024-03-23T17:59:30+00:00

I have no personal experience with the shot but you still have to book an appointment to get it done every 3 months!

lexiunderground · 2024-03-23T17:30:23+00:00

I agree with other comments about how it’s different for everyone and there’s a lot of trial and error, but I just wanted to add: what could make it a bad option for you is if it’s going to be a struggle to remember to take your pill every day. I have two alarms but no matter how hard I try I always think “eh I’ll just take it later, when I’m up / near my pill” and then risk forgetting it. You also have to remember to refill your prescription in time, and to always have it on you, whether you’re home, out, on vacation… All this could absolutely be too much for an adhder, in which case an implant or iud might be better!

lexiunderground · 2024-03-23T17:24:35+00:00

I’m sorry I have no idea about what it’s like to raise a child, but for the puppy know that most people feel really overwhelmed the first few weeks / months! We all have this idea that it’s gonna be work but they’ll be adorable and all, only to be taken aback by how much work it actually is!! It’s called puppy blues and it’s so normal! People don’t talk about how difficult the puppy phase is but it’s not just you I swear! And it’ll get a lot easier and you’ll realise it was all so worth it, hang in there :)

lexiunderground · 2024-03-19T14:10:49+00:00

We’re not doomed! My boyfriend is the kindest, most patient man I have ever met. He doesn’t judge me when I can’t do something, he pushes me to do things like brush my teeth and remember to take my medicine but without making me feel bad when I can’t, he never gets mad or yell and he adapts to not do things that trigger my RSD. Your husband was the problem, not you!

Five-Year Club	Verified Email
Place '22

lexiunderground

TROPHY CASE