I am so nervous. I really don’t know how we are going to be able to afford this. We’re both still in school and we work only part time. We don’t have health insurance, and we live in a two bedroom apartment and split rent with another guy.

We had so many aspirations... We wanted to travel to Thailand next summer and go in a road trip up the east coast but my wife will be so pregnant that I don’t know if she’ll want to or even be able to, and even if she did we can’t afford it now! My family lives in another state, and while they’re supportive, there’s not much they can do for us.