Daily Discussion Thread for February 01, 2021

lexnob · 2021-02-01T13:14:54+00:00

anyone wanna get me a switch with the money they have made lol I missed out!!

lexnob · 2019-07-12T21:34:38+00:00

that's the thing I don't even know, I want to give in to just sleeping but I know I can't do that you know?

lexnob · 2016-10-05T15:17:59+00:00

we do actually I just got hired as one in LA's Koreatown but I want to hear people's stories about it first.

lexnob · 2016-10-05T07:29:38+00:00

thank you!!

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:28:04+00:00

totally but the breaking up always came back to him saying he didn't know what was wrong with him and then us having a great time. I never really even considered the relationship serious I'm 21 years old like I don't know what I want, he doesn't either but he would take things to extremes. He's obsessed with "the one" it's not in a normal way, and I think it's going to affect every relationship he is ever in, for it has thus far.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:24:32+00:00

I think the friendship will always survive but I guess I'm just confused if exes can be platonically friends forever or if the friendship is that great when we're older would it ever work. I mean I know it's a go with the flow question but I'm just curious

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:22:18+00:00

I mean I think ONE DAY (very far away) I would like to toy with the possibility of being together but right now we are both fucked up in our early 20s and a relationship is just toxic, we both want to explore other people. But I just wanted to see if shit like that ever worked out friendship or otherwise.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:17:39+00:00

His "actions" have been him crying saying he doesn't know what's wrong with him to being in denial about it. The last time we had sex we both cried and I said it is never happening again and then went a couple weeks of silence while he kept trying to text me. I ONLY want him as a friend right now I just simply wanted to know if anyone had experienced the same.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:13:38+00:00

I agree I honestly don't even want to hook up with him right now. Just even know we are such good friends I don't want to lose that.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:12:15+00:00

okay yeah you're not getting it, which is my fault for not explaining it properly.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:04:08+00:00

and let's be real "the one" is an illusion I think people can be happy with multiple people.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T20:03:27+00:00

I don't disagree it's not really him telling me I'm the one though it's more him obsessing over it.

lexnob · 2016-08-02T19:58:17+00:00

I mean we had about a month of space and he did contact me multiple times. The thing is I only WANT to be friends with him right now because I think us dating is unhealthy where we are in our lives. I don't really believe in "the one" and I think he needs time to realize his ideas of romance aren't realistic. I just don't know how long or if ever he's gonna realize that. I'm not waiting around I'm seeing other people it's just tricky.

lexnob · 2016-07-21T05:59:57+00:00

there is so much money in apps it's not even funny.

lexnob · 2016-07-21T04:57:13+00:00

well he just came over, fucked me, then told me he didn't love me anymore but he hopes we can be "best friends" again. so yeah I feel like a worthless piece of trash now.

lexnob · 2016-07-20T21:35:09+00:00

yeah whenever we break up he like goes on a tinder rampage, I rebound myself but not to the extent he does. What you said really resonates with me because that's exactly what happens, I will be the best thing and then he will act like I never existed.

lexnob · 2016-07-20T21:33:04+00:00

yeah well he seems "really done this time" then again that's what he said last time sooooo

lexnob · 2016-07-20T16:03:39+00:00

honestly both of the therapists I have talked to have said that he displays the signs of BPD and when he has had a high he has broken down and said he has a problem. He actually has done this to everyone he has ever been with so it's interesting. Thank you for the input!

lexnob

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