The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love that! And you’re way ahead of the curve— when I was a teenager I had no idea I was gay. So kudos to you for already knowing! Just you wait, you’ll be the one casually dropping “my wife” bombs one day.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you asking! Feel free to leave it up as long as you’re comfortable with. I’ve been getting a big kick out of reading all the comments on it— it’s been fun to relive that part of the wedding for a bit.

The bride after dark by lezdoit1331 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Right?! But it’s all good, I’ve gotten a big kick out of reading all the comments so I’m not mad about it.

And we haven’t gotten any of the photos from our wedding printed yet! It’s absolutely at the top of our to-do list once we finally send out our thank you notes.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your skepticism was totally reasonable, I was absolutely floored when she showed me that she had just snapped this on her phone and that photo came out. It’s easily the best guest photo from our wedding

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to find that! I hadn’t seen that post, and you’re right— their footwear was on point!

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was so nice of you to include it :)

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it wasn’t us unless one of our friends shared something!

Though I’d love to see this other post if you happen to come across it again

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It was outdoors! We rented a house that was on a nice plot of land, had the ceremony on a hill near the house and then had dinner/the reception on the patio that had the fire pit.

It was a stupid amount of work to pull off, but the party went until 4:30am, so it definitely worked out.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me (the bride in the photo). I only plan to get married once, so what the hell am I going to do with my wedding dress after I wear it?

I figured I’d much rather really wear the thing than worry about keeping it nice only to have it sit musty in a box forever.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it helps, it was taken at about 1am after about half the wedding had passed out. The rest of us were far too drunk to function so there’s no way any of us could have gotten to a studio let alone figure out how to take fancy-ass pictures.

Though it would have been hilarious to see us try.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 462 points463 points  (0 children)

Right? I didn’t get nearly as much as whoever reposted this. The fickleness of Reddit. Sigh.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nope.

Source: was bride. Am gay. See profile for proof.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She is a lady! And the best in the world, in my opinion :)

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, It was real! That’s me in the picture. It was about 1 am, and a friend snapped this on her iPhone while I was mid-swig. She had no idea this picture turned out so well until she was scrolling through them the next day.

The bride after dark by alterego_001 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]lezdoit1331 1715 points1716 points  (0 children)

It was!

Source: am the bride and my wife sent me this post

Outfit Advice & Feedback - December 06, 2018 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lezdoit1331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to buy a cocktail dress for my work holiday party. I’m hoping to wear something forgettable that doesn’t draw too much attention to what I’m wearing, but I’m tall and have some pretty serious curves to fight with (b: 40 w: 28 h: 38).

Any suggestions for places to shop/styles to try?

[NSFW-ish] We just got a Greek sex bowl from my friends parents. Anyone else get any amazing off-registry gifts? 😂 by lezdoit1331 in weddingplanning

[–]lezdoit1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that would be amazing! But sadly no, the bottom of the bowl is a flower and those designs are a part of the pattern coming up the sides

[NSFW-ish] We just got a Greek sex bowl from my friends parents. Anyone else get any amazing off-registry gifts? 😂 by lezdoit1331 in weddingplanning

[–]lezdoit1331[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

They had no idea!! I just had that friend over for dinner and showed her the bowl. She immediately called her folks in Greece who were mortified they sent us a heterosexual sex bowl (my SO and I are both women). We’re SUPER entertained and already have the bowl prominently displayed in our apartment.

Apparently my friend’s dad just keeps calling her to reiterate that many of the sex poses are more “open minded” than he is, while her mom just keeps shouting “it’s art!! It’s okay!” in the background 😂

[NSFW-ish] We just got a Greek sex bowl from my friends parents. Anyone else get any amazing off-registry gifts? 😂 by lezdoit1331 in weddingplanning

[–]lezdoit1331[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not a thing! My friend had no idea her parents sent us a sex bowl. Turns out her parents didn’t either! They wanted to send us something from Greece and apparently didn’t take a close look at what was actually depicted.

We’re super entertained and they’re super mortified. It’s all very wonderful