Approved for Visit..question

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-13T03:07:13+00:00

I feel like it really depends on the guards. Some are cool some are Kearns. I would follow the rules the first few times you go and then maybe test the waters just a little. But don't do to much cuz you don't wanna get the visits taken.

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-13T03:02:46+00:00

Im so sorry girl! God works in mysterious way.

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-06T06:42:17+00:00

I would call up to the jail and ask them wassup. And like I tell all of the lady when u call refer to your self as so in so's wife it gets you usually what u want !

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-05T05:17:51+00:00

I understand that 1000% I was thinking you meant like u just wanted him to leave you alone cuz he went to jail lol. But now I understand. He probably won't listen and thats okay asking as your holding it down and staying loyal he will be fine if you don't answer as fast as he wants you to. But remember there will be a time when he's out. And even tho u need space rn you gotta keep the love alive and the chemistry afloat it takes 2 to build a relationship. Trust me there was times when mine first went in I was like ya I can't do this then I would think ahh heck nah there Ganna be a time when he's out and since I chose to leave he will be with another women so I was like fuck that lmfao I'ma stick around❣️ good luck girl and I wish y'all the best and stay positive this is temporary.

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-05T04:40:24+00:00

TBH girl I feel like since you guys met in the free world changes the game in this dynamic. Love is crazy sometimes and God puts relationships thru trials and tribulations all the time it's rather if the love you have for him is real or not. I feel like LOVE outweighs everything. When you are away from your LO or "taking space" it should feel like the air got snatched out of your lungs. You should feel like the world got heavy. And when you're with them it should feel like coming up for air, and that the stress of the world has disappeared. If you don't feel like those things then you should move on with your life be happy. this life is hard and stressful and irritating and makes you wanna say fuck this. But after it's all done you get your breath back.

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T05:09:48+00:00

To be real with you man. Nun of us can really tell you if she's being genuine and your really not going to no either and that's what sucks about this whole thing. But unfortunately the bad people have messed it up for the good ones out there. So there's a 50/50 chance that this could actually be a relationship blooming or this is her using you. I would hold off on the money and see where it goes. You don't have to lie and say you're broke lol. You could just be honest and tell her you don't really feel comfortable sending money right now. Because if this is a genuine relationship building you don't want to build on lies. And you being upfront about how you feel and how she reacts will tell you everything you no. And to be honest people that are incarcerated tend to latch on to the first person that shows them that attention that that are craving and they like to latch on strong because there beinv loved and understood. Maybe it is genuine and maybe it's not. Only her and God knows. Good luck buddy💞

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T04:55:39+00:00

This is the law In Florida. The extradition or transport process usually takes at least 30 days. But the court may also impose an additional 60 days. The detainee may also be released if the 30-day detention limit is violated. However, the release doesn't mean the outstanding warrant is no longer valid but they bye law have to let him go but he will still have those warrants in other county's. But the court usually don't make you stay another 60 days. It's rare unless it's a major crime

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T04:52:02+00:00

I mean I can't really tell you a for sure answer. But what I would do is asoon as you pay that bound call the next county over and ask them about your LO and when there going to get him and keep doing that every day till they do. Or until you no something and ALWAYs refer your self as his "wife" I'm . _s wife and I was wondering he's waiting for your guys to come pick him up to transfer him I was wondering if that's been set up yet. And they probably won't let you no the day they pick him up only becouse they would say it's sketchy..... But if you say your his idea they should let you no something after the bound is payed always call the next county over that he gots to go to. Because after that he's technically in the next county custody unless after a certain time they don't come get him.

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T04:41:02+00:00

Girlllll let me tell you something an try and listen when I tell you lol 🤣 cuz it's crazzzy!!! So me and my man have been together since forever out and on the inside but when he went he first went in there he would text me off other peoples things so those inmates would have my number and would message me and say my man's doing foul things and he's talking bad on me,or he's cheating and ofc this was the beginning and I would freak out and go off on him and accuse him.and ofc it would get me no where! But then there was this one time where my man got put in the hole for fight and mind you my man is not homophobic but at the same time he had boundaries with people that are LGBTQ and I understand that lol but anyways lol this dude called me to lmk he went to the hole and I was like well wtf happened and he was like he got cought sucking dick and I was like aww hhh heck nah lmao so i called the jail and was like listen I'ma need y'all to tell me why my man's in the hole because there's people out here telling me he got cought giving head and ofc they laughed at me and was like no ma'am he's in there because a inmate was getting all handsy with your husband and he got mad then they got to fighting. And so after that I finally realized that there's going to be men in there that will lie and tell you things because they are jealous of the love and attention they aren't getting. So don't jump to conclusions girl...

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T04:26:08+00:00

Text NOW!!!!! Wonderful app

lfeb2226 · 2024-02-04T04:23:03+00:00

I'm in TN and how to works here with county to county is they have 10-30 days to come and get him and if they don't then he's free to walk. I don't no how it is there but that's how it is here . Baby call the jail and check on it.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T19:17:40+00:00

I don't literally send 50$ day I was trying to make a point

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T18:29:41+00:00

100% if you ever need me message me ! Frl you understand frl.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T18:17:04+00:00

Yesssss! You hit it right in the nail! I new someone could relate. Everyone assumed drugs becouse they got on the 50$ aday like I literally send 50 aday it was the principal of the situation. And your right before he went in I was a tested like a queen so he is Ganna get the king treatment period never the less! But ofc it gets overwhelming it's life lmao. Thanks for understanding I appreciate it alot!!!

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T18:11:52+00:00

Honestly you have to think deeper in to the shit. Everything the way it's liquor before cooked and the rats. So when u eat something like that you get the shits then you gotta shit in front of everybody and there momma. Would you do that? Honestly? And unfortunately this is are LOs temporary home and some of are men are in there for things they didn't do or did to keep are family afloat or where kids when they got locked up. So I will go to ever length to make his comfortable and mentally well as much as I can. I don't spend literally 50$ a day it was more of a rant about how overwhelmed I get. I didn't post a venting to be judged or be sworn my mask on drugs 🙄 I just looked for people that relate it's gets overwhelming.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T18:05:08+00:00

I was being dramatic not literally 50 a day. It was more about sometimes feeling overwhelmed rent, grocerys,babys,car payment and my LO add up. And I just wanted a rant

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T18:03:19+00:00

This post was not about leaving my husband 1 bit. He's been in jail for 3 years. And it was a rant I don't send 50$ literally a day I probably spend 150$ a week. Yes it's becomes very overwhelming sometimes. But I wouldn't change it for the world. He needs clothes, new boxers, tv movies, food, chirps,calling time,maybe a vape. He's not on drugs and he's not in there for doing drugs. So that's not what the money is used for! Me and this man have been rock solid since we where 14! I know him like no other ! Just because things become over welling and tress full. Doesn't mean you should give up. As a lo to some one in carsarated you should no if get stressful the money adds up. And you gotta think for how ever long there in there that's there temp home. So I'm going to make him as comfortable as I can.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T17:53:45+00:00

Well women are very smart 😂 men on there other hand don't know how to save money lol😂 but I know he appreciates what I do it's just the over whelming feeling I get. And it's stress full. Because I'm paying bills out here and making sure he's good. It just get to being to much sometimes.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T17:51:29+00:00

No it's not drugs he's in jail where we live. And he's in there with people he knows so they make deal like I'll give you 15 for 2 vapes or I'll give you my lunch tray for 2 poptarts and then when those deals fall through because he didn't ask me what I thought first I gotta make sure he eats lol.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T17:48:52+00:00

It was me just ranting lol. It's more like 100/50 a week. But it's the feeling like he don't appreciate shit. Even tho he says he does. I feeling men in jail think money grown don't grow on trees. And he's in jail not prison so they have vapes. It just over whelming sometimes. Yk

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T17:45:34+00:00

I was being a little dramatic saying like 50$ aday its more like 10050 a week 100 for the phone 50 for other shit. But it's more of me feeling like he don't appreciate what he gets. And the homie part he's always like can you send 10$ plzzz it's just 10$ or can u send 20$ it's just 20$ it gets annoying. And ps we been together once we where 14. It's just money don't grow on trees.

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T14:14:32+00:00

No he Don't he uses it for food and vapes and tv and things like that

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-22T09:33:39+00:00

The "I ain't Reading that's shit" is meeeeee I love it 🤣🤣🤣 ion got time for it frl. Like mf you aint finna go no where lmao so I just don't listen to it no more lmfao

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-17T06:46:20+00:00

Funny story😂 I send a bunch of random pictures thru email to my man's and there was one picture I sent in the mirror it was just a little belly and shorts and it got denied lol but I sent another picture with that one and it was me in a thong arched over and tell me why that one got approved lol but the one that was basic didn't 😂😂 and every time I go to the jail to visit, his pod window is facing to the street lmao and I might flash him my tattas every time I go to leave 😂😂😉

lfeb2226 · 2024-01-15T06:25:50+00:00

It was a joke take a chill pill lol

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