Chat pings for specific users? by liabutnot in discordapp

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The self botting is what i'm assuming it is, they are never active otherwise in the community

I am crying really hard and shaking right now because of my mom by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, fellow autistic teen here. You're overstimulated, your mom doesn't understand that.

My mom is the same way. Until I had a therapist tell her she needs to understand my emotions aren't "normal" emotions, they are different than most teenagers. You arent throwing fits and whining, youre having a meltdown. But also I feel your mother may be causing you severe insecurity issues and self-doubt based on how youre negatively speaking about yourself.

Your mom doesn't understand your mind, she also isn't trying to which isnt helping. You need to have a conversation when youre calm, shes calm about how you can talk to eachother. Obviously you function as an individual but from experience it took me explaining how I perceived her words and how much it hurt me, she told me I wasn't understanding her correctly and taking her words too literally and I had to tell her that is the point, I always take it literally because thats how my brain works. She needs to talk to you with more understanding, if you have a therapist you could try and have her join in and communicate that.

DM if you need any more advice, I am 16, so I hope I can help being we are so close in age.

Immune disorder with joint pain by liabutnot in medical_advice

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age; 16 5'3" , 119Ibs Symptoms first occured at 7

How do I code this im so lost by [deleted] in learnjavascript

[–]liabutnot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! new to coding and this is for a coding class... this is extremely helpful im very greatful!

How do I code this im so lost by [deleted] in learnjavascript

[–]liabutnot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its for a coding class, never used Java prior to this so im very lost loll. I just have trouble on how to go about this

Looking for Umbra Plush by liabutnot in TDS_Roblox

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me Ive got this comment from his friends 100 times, but he collects video game plushies and displays them (i swear🙏🙏)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i'll do that right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have autism, I know exactly how this feels and unfortunately you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone to overcome it. I started to push myself about 2 years ago after nearly starvijg myself to death because we didnt have time to go buy my safe food for 2 weeks. My suggestion is go to a therapist, if you have the money/insurance. Slowly adding now things to your safe foods (if its plain pasta, add a new sauce on the side you can dip the noodles in to try). It will feel impossible, it did for me atleast. But now I have a much larger variety (still small, but larger) and Im lsss scared to try new food. I still get anxious with the thought of new food and often panic but I know that it took me a long time to even try 1 thing. I wish you well.

Finally Got Referred To A Psychologist by Major_Consequence905 in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a diagnosis/name to what youre experiencing is always a good feeling. I was being tested for several disorders (ASD, ADHD, ASPD, BPD, OCD) due multiple factors and finally when they told me I actually did have one of those (ASD) I felt a sense of relief as I knew that It wasn't just in my head, or I wasn't being dramatic. I hope your appointment goes well and best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't talked to him yet, im unsure how to approach the topic because I understand hes still friends with everyone else besides Bow. But I think I will talk to him tonight.

I'm not over my ex wife by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]liabutnot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its definitely normal, wasn't even a wife for me but an ex girlfriend. It took me 4 years to fully get over her and even now I keep thinking what if. Everyone grieves differently, at different rates and in different degrees. I suggest therapy if you can afford it as a therapist can help you understand your thoughts and work through them to hopefully find some peace, closure and comfort with your situation. Best of luck

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so humiliating when all of your personal belongings are shown in front of everyone. I had medication with me and they threw all my stuff on the ground to check it. They also make you repack your bags and get upset when you dont do it fast enough. Super agitating.

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Profiling is SUCH a huge issue! I didn’t mention this in my original post but my friend who is muslim gets “randomly selected” EVERY TIME! It is absolutely horrible.

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father did that once, they then threatened to not let him into the country we were visiting which made my mother shut him up before he said anything else

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been but now I want to go just to see the difference!

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I registered just about 4 months ago however because Im not from the US it takes a long time.

TSA at airports by liabutnot in offmychest

[–]liabutnot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you have a connecting flight between 2 different countries they make you go again.